"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why do women enjoy picking on AFCs?

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Hi, can anybody explain why some chicks like to pick on AFCs? I was out with friends, and my GF was using her "womanly" charm to make fun of and take advantage of one of my AFC male friends. My friend that she picked on is a super nice guy, and is always extra nice to women when he is around them.

During that night, I jumped to his defense and reverse picked on my GF for picking on my friend. Why the f*** do chicks do this? Do they get a kick out of manipulating AFCs with their "womanly" charm?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Because they are basically insecure little bunnies that if given half a chance will use their insecurities to strike out at someone they perceive as just as weak or weaker than them, thus making them feel stronger.
 
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Ego boost, confidence pill, self esteem elexir. Need I say more?
 
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Who cares? *shrugs*

Besides, if you think about it, don't us DJ's get a kick out of picking on women? Difference between us and them is that they LOVE it. It just irritates us.
 
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Why do some GUYS pick on other people?

Women can be jerks too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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