"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why do women enjoy picking on AFCs?

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Hi, can anybody explain why some chicks like to pick on AFCs? I was out with friends, and my GF was using her "womanly" charm to make fun of and take advantage of one of my AFC male friends. My friend that she picked on is a super nice guy, and is always extra nice to women when he is around them.

During that night, I jumped to his defense and reverse picked on my GF for picking on my friend. Why the f*** do chicks do this? Do they get a kick out of manipulating AFCs with their "womanly" charm?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Because they are basically insecure little bunnies that if given half a chance will use their insecurities to strike out at someone they perceive as just as weak or weaker than them, thus making them feel stronger.
 
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Ego boost, confidence pill, self esteem elexir. Need I say more?
 
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Who cares? *shrugs*

Besides, if you think about it, don't us DJ's get a kick out of picking on women? Difference between us and them is that they LOVE it. It just irritates us.
 
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Why do some GUYS pick on other people?

Women can be jerks too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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