"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why do women ask your sign?

napoleon

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WHY do women ask your sign or try to guess it and you guess theirs? What does it mean to them? Is there some hidden meaning?

BTW that tip of the day is excellent, u can infact do it to anyone(except guys of course(and lesbians))
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blinkwatt

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to start a conversation and try to find a connection with you,thats what im guessing allow of dont follow that crap.
 

blinkwatt

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not necassarily but it cant be bad otherwise she wouldnt talk to you.
 

Bonhomme

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It's a good thing

... and a terrific opportunity to poke a bit of fun at her in a playful way, and get her in a feisty mood. Feisty mood = good.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ER!C L!VE

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I learned about signs.

I ask girls their sign.

Many girls know their sign and are into astrology.

If she doesn't you can teach her a bit about herself.

I mainly ask girls with whom I'm interested their sign.

Have fun!
 
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