"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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why do women ask your sign?

napoleon

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WHY do women ask your sign or try to guess it and you guess theirs? What does it mean to them? Is there some hidden meaning?

BTW that tip of the day is excellent, u can infact do it to anyone(except guys of course(and lesbians))
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blinkwatt

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to start a conversation and try to find a connection with you,thats what im guessing allow of dont follow that crap.
 

blinkwatt

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not necassarily but it cant be bad otherwise she wouldnt talk to you.
 

Bonhomme

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It's a good thing

... and a terrific opportunity to poke a bit of fun at her in a playful way, and get her in a feisty mood. Feisty mood = good.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ER!C L!VE

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I learned about signs.

I ask girls their sign.

Many girls know their sign and are into astrology.

If she doesn't you can teach her a bit about herself.

I mainly ask girls with whom I'm interested their sign.

Have fun!
 
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