"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why do we love people?

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The thing is, I'm having the hardest time getting over my oneitis. OK. But the thing is, I don't know why I love her. If I don't know why, I can't put it right.

So the question is, why do we love people? .. or why do we *think* we love them? (Infatuation)

I have never been so down in all my life, but the reason I'm down is not because I can't have her, but because I don't know why I want her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I know what you mean. It's even more odd the way it comes and goes. One morning you wake up and love someone for no reason why, and you wake up the next morning not liking her anymore.
 
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Why do you think we love people? Do you think we suddenly meet a person and fall in love with him immediatly?

Hell no!

The process of 'falling in love' happens later. When we are alone in our room or whatever, and we think about the person we just had the date with. Suddenly we seem more attracted to him and *surprise* fall in love with him. But that's more oneitis then love, so beware.
 
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C'mon... You must be wanting that person for sexual desires right? That's infactuation man...
You know if it's true love when the time comes
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yes, part of it is sexual desires, but i like her for her, but don't know why, my head is so ****ed at the moment
 
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i know what you mean

if it was pure lust, you would feel exactly the same for countless other women

because it's love, you will feel like your personalities click while your sexual attraction is high as well.

try reading some of those oneitis posts - the legendary ones. i've heard many good reviews about them.
 
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