Why do we love people?

[LilKid]

The thing is, I'm having the hardest time getting over my oneitis. OK. But the thing is, I don't know why I love her. If I don't know why, I can't put it right.

So the question is, why do we love people? .. or why do we *think* we love them? (Infatuation)

I have never been so down in all my life, but the reason I'm down is not because I can't have her, but because I don't know why I want her.

 

[Swain]

I know what you mean. It's even more odd the way it comes and goes. One morning you wake up and love someone for no reason why, and you wake up the next morning not liking her anymore.

 

[bubbles]

love such a complicated matter.

 

[Slimijs]

Why do you think we love people? Do you think we suddenly meet a person and fall in love with him immediatly?

Hell no!

The process of 'falling in love' happens later. When we are alone in our room or whatever, and we think about the person we just had the date with. Suddenly we seem more attracted to him and *surprise* fall in love with him. But that's more oneitis then love, so beware.

 

[ZeeK]

C'mon... You must be wanting that person for sexual desires right? That's infactuation man...
You know if it's true love when the time comes

 

[LilKid]

re

yes, part of it is sexual desires, but i like her for her, but don't know why, my head is so ****ed at the moment

 

[gav]

i know what you mean

if it was pure lust, you would feel exactly the same for countless other women

because it's love, you will feel like your personalities click while your sexual attraction is high as well.

try reading some of those oneitis posts - the legendary ones. i've heard many good reviews about them.