Why do we have to come up with excuses for not liking women with a high body count?

[jhonny9546]

No, but there could be bonding without sex.

Curious! So that explain "platonic" friends? (man / woman)

 

[CBear]

Are you still together?

Yes. Not one fight or issue has been had thus far whereas with the other ones, there was unnecessary issues or fights within a couple months. It seems that the ones with bigger baggage are more prone to fight back as well, especially in an immature manner (idk if causation of high body count or correlation or (probably) both) Of course she's very loving but I don't experience the crazy and insecure clingy actions like with the previous ones.

 

[GoodMan32]

The OP's question illustrates a bigger picture:

In general, men are viewed as bad for nexting a woman, no matter how good our reason is (and we get viewed as bad for not being into a woman in the first place).

Yet somehow it's totally socially acceptable for a woman to next us (or not be into us in the first place) for the most trivial reasons.

One of many double standards.

 

[GoodMan32]

Nonsense, there is no bigger picture here.
Subjective, anecdotal experience isn't evidence for some idiotic theory you're using to justify your weird behaviour around getting rejected and having an autistic hysterical response to having to be in the same space with the woman who 'rejected' you.

Whatever theories you try to espouse, don't think we're all as gullible as you are.

Umm, the whole premise of this thread is the idea that it's stupid we're "forced" to explain ourselves if we "next" a woman for having a high body count.

I made a valid point when I pointed out there's a foolish double standard when it comes to a man nexting a woman vs a woman nexting a man.

 

[jhonny9546]

There is bonding with physical intimacy, but without sex. One example would be a person who is physically incapable of having intercourse, often for medical reasons, whether it's simple erectile dysfunction or tetraplegia. You can bond and pair-bond without sex, but not without being intimate with genuine love and affection.

Interesting to hear more about this, is this something that happen btw a masculine male and feminine woman?
Because you see the very masculine man can't get too deep in these stuff, but keep it superficial and focus on the sex side of it, while the less masculine man can engage in what you're saying.

Nuances