Why do we fear rejection? Why do we fear failure?

[Thomson]

I have never seen more stupid and ignorant answers in my entire life.

Do this and do that. Are you all idiots?

No. You don't have to do a single thing in your entire life.

First of all, the only fear there ever arises is because our clinginess. What are we clinging to? Our ideas of being a certain person, ideas o being a certain man; our ego. For example, you will not fear rejection if you don't expect to have a certain outcome. You expect to success, you expect to be a man who can have girls chasing you. There is not a single fear in life. It is all your own imagination. You fear death because of hell and because of your money, respect, value, fame and all that bull****. What are you doing gaining values and respect, fame and so on? You will lose them all anyways. And your death will be much more of a suffering than of an ordinary, humble, innocent human being. But your stupid ego likes it very much. The ego is the most stupid thing in our life, yet we cling to it like it is a gold cave. Can you see how stupid you are? What are you trying to do here, right at this forum? Let me tell you: the most stupid thing in this entire life. Not only in tis life but in the entire history of human kind.

The only thing they teach you here is simply just to drown you more in fear. They teach how to b a man! And that is the biggest ego you will ever get. The ego of a man is much more worse than of a woman. They teach to drop your ego by he they say to accomplish respect, money, fame, power. If that is not ego trip then what is? They say be a man.

If you drop your ego, ideas, and if you no longer care for fame, respect, money and power, you will no longer have any fear. How can you? You no longer worry whetever you lose something or no.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Oh poor you. I feel sorry for you


You just stood up and went back to class? Damn chump/AFC move. I'm trying to help you become a better man! Neg her brainz out if you ever share the same class. She forgets to do her homework? Neg her infront of the whole class! Listen to me, I'm a girl and I know most girls don't have much self-respect for themselves because of their low self-esteem. She'll eventually want your validation and will be drooling all over her if you teach her a lesson :crackup:

I always pick and choose carefully the females I want as friends in my life. I don't want a snake-a$$ or a jealous B****. Quality friends are worthy to me ONLY.

Just shutup and go out there, kick her ego. Why do you think rejection to me is nothing? Turn it around. In seconds, I was negging one of those guys who have the car and tattoo and thinks he's Jonny from Grease. He was so offended. Not to mention he tried to make it up by 'offering me a date'. Ouff :nervous:

Then I told him I was taken and skipped off to work. What a great day.

I don't know how much good "negging" a girl in front of the entire class would be. It didn't sound like she attacked in personally in front of anyone. If that were to happen, then yeah, clown away.

Some annoying chick talking herself up and talking $hit about people behind their backs. Depending on the situation, I might get involved, but I feel it's best just to back out, leave her in her own misery. Indifference. Why should Hobbit give two $hits about this girl? Or lower himself to her level.

 

[instantnoodles]

I don't know how much good "negging" a girl in front of the entire class would be. It didn't sound like she attacked in personally in front of anyone. If that were to happen, then yeah, clown away.

Some annoying chick talking herself up and talking $hit about people behind their backs. Depending on the situation, I might get involved, but I feel it's best just to back out, leave her in her own misery. Indifference. Why should Hobbit give two $hits about this girl? Or lower himself to her level.

Well neg her and then incorporate indifference as she warms up to you

Plus he seems intimidated by her Ego, which he shouldn't be. I don't ever cower below someone's ego. Everyone has an Ego but a BIG Ego is like a poison of their own - intoxicating their body/mind

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Well neg her and then incorporate indifference as she warms up to you

That's usually how it works.....or instead of a "neg" some type of teasing.

Plus he seems intimidated by her Ego, which he shouldn't be.

True indifference is this. Not caring. Walking away with a smile on your face because it's like watching kids play on the playground VS. walking away because something they said effected you emotionally.

Everyone has an Ego but a BIG Ego is like a poison of their own - intoxicating their body/mind

Someone who has to constantly win....and brags about turning down 30 guys and then calls them beta faggot chumps? Yes, that person's ego needs to be put in check. Or not, I don't really care

 

[LorenzoVonM]

I have never seen more stupid and ignorant answers in my entire life.

Do this and do that. Are you all idiots?

No. You don't have to do a single thing in your entire life.

First of all, the only fear there ever arises is because our clinginess. What are we clinging to? Our ideas of being a certain person, ideas o being a certain man; our ego. For example, you will not fear rejection if you don't expect to have a certain outcome. You expect to success, you expect to be a man who can have girls chasing you. There is not a single fear in life. It is all your own imagination. You fear death because of hell and because of your money, respect, value, fame and all that bull****. What are you doing gaining values and respect, fame and so on? You will lose them all anyways. And your death will be much more of a suffering than of an ordinary, humble, innocent human being. But your stupid ego likes it very much. The ego is the most stupid thing in our life, yet we cling to it like it is a gold cave. Can you see how stupid you are? What are you trying to do here, right at this forum? Let me tell you: the most stupid thing in this entire life. Not only in tis life but in the entire history of human kind.

The only thing they teach you here is simply just to drown you more in fear. They teach how to b a man! And that is the biggest ego you will ever get. The ego of a man is much more worse than of a woman. They teach to drop your ego by he they say to accomplish respect, money, fame, power. If that is not ego trip then what is? They say be a man.

If you drop your ego, ideas, and if you no longer care for fame, respect, money and power, you will no longer have any fear. How can you? You no longer worry whetever you lose something or no.

This.

And I'm sure you were an idiot once too.

 

[FortunateSon]

Used to rejection, used to failure, so I don't fear any of these things. I take things in my stride and I try and use every rejection and failure as motivation to climb back on the saddle and go at it again.