"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why do we continue to play a dating game that is rigged against us

Poonani Maker

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I can definitely relate to the concept of women who are beneath us being convinced they are above us.

I recently dated a single mom, 29, with stretch marks, an ex-fiancée who just dumped her, no job, and no money, and she thought she was WAY too good for me. Compare her to my previous girl, 22, equally pretty, no stretch marks, no ex-fiancée's, no kids, and she adored me. As women approach 30, they suddenly want guys who are 30 (who think these women are WAY too old for them).

There is a simple reason for women's inflated egos. The 80/20 rule. The top 80% of women sleep with the top 20% of men. This means the bottom 80% of men have to share the bottom 20% of women.

That means a guy who is a 10 has slept with the girl who is a 10, 9, 8 and 7. The guy who is a 9 has slept with the 6, 5, 4 and 3.

Hence, a girl who is a 7 thinks she's too good for a guy who is 9. Due to their shameless self-service, women feel entitled to be with the hottest guy who ever used them.
John Tyler was our 10th President of the United States. He married a 21 year old woman at 54. It was not a "scandal." Trump is 70-something with a 45 yr old model, not a scandal. It's just the way it is. NO GUY wants roast beef in a catcher's mitt.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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John Tyler was our 10th President of the United States. He married a 21 year old woman at 54. It was not a "scandal." Trump is 70-something with a 45 yr old model, not a scandal. It's just the way it is. NO GUY wants roast beef in a catcher's mitt.
I confronted my ex and girls I know that are partying, overtanning, not working out, can't cook, "I'm gonna go to GRAD SCHOOL and get a PHD in Psychology and be a Career WOMAN, and etc about how they should try to find a man in their early years before their age starts being a disadvantage. They rabidly disagreed and said men will like them more as they are older so stfu lolz.
 

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I'm sure there is a chick or 2 you smashed that you probably took from another guy who wasted his time dating her, and listening to her problems.... but you don't know about him, because he didn't go online and make a thread about it... we all take losses. Get in where you fit in
 

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If a girl has 100's of options - good for them. Who cares. It's a good analogy written on here that your princess is in another castle.

Most of those castle's turn into broken tents after a while though.

Meanwhile.......you build your castle brick by brick.
 

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How do you guys like your whine? Prefer mine in glass.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If a girl has 100's of options - good for them. Who cares. It's a good analogy written on here that your princess is in another castle.

Most of those castle's turn into broken tents after a while though.

Meanwhile.......you build your castle brick by brick.
Options aren't always good options or better options. Be a great option for your own good. They can still cheat on you with a lesser option if so inclined and you know they will.
 

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Options aren't always good options or better options. Be a great option for your own good. They can still cheat on you with a lesser option if so inclined and you know they will.
Exactly...they do have options, and most of them are lame ass dudes who act like AFC's, can't Fvck worth a damn, and don't have much going for them. Don't be like them.
 

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Exactly...they do have options, and most of them are lame ass dudes who act like AFC's, can't Fvck worth a damn, and don't have much going for them. Don't be like them.
Some of the options could be other Alpha's who won't **** them good, and won't do jack for them. So he'll get his nut and be done.
 

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If both sexes have no interest in marriage and family. Is there any way to overlook things like money when it comes to dating? Because lets be honest. We know which gender is going to have to pay the lions share when it comes to dating and raising a family.
 
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I agree. I was at this place yesterday and there were two hideously ugly girls (three chins, etc.) talking about guys they were meeting on Instagram.

It's pretty ****ed up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Richard search on red pill phases here. Might give u a bit more perspective.
 
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