"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why do ugly girls have egos

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captain55 said:
Being delusional and thinking your more attractive than you are definitely can't hurt.
It can set you up for a letdown. For instance, I'm a fairly average looking fellow, decent looking, certainly not hideous. I'm not going to win women by virtue of my looks alone. I've always figured I'm about a 7. Now that I'm older maybe it's closer to a 6. My looks probably don't really help me or hurt me.

But I KNOW the way that girls react to guys who are around a 9 in looks. I see it all the time. If I thought that I was a 10, I would be confused as hell wondering why I don't get that immediate positive reaction that those guys get. As it is, it takes a little longer, girls usually have to get to know me a little.

As for Gene Simmons, he may not be the best looking guy in the room, but he probably has the highest SMV due to his fame and money. Although he's probably getting a little too old for the sex symbol act.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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