"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why do ugly girls have egos

zekko

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captain55 said:
Being delusional and thinking your more attractive than you are definitely can't hurt.
It can set you up for a letdown. For instance, I'm a fairly average looking fellow, decent looking, certainly not hideous. I'm not going to win women by virtue of my looks alone. I've always figured I'm about a 7. Now that I'm older maybe it's closer to a 6. My looks probably don't really help me or hurt me.

But I KNOW the way that girls react to guys who are around a 9 in looks. I see it all the time. If I thought that I was a 10, I would be confused as hell wondering why I don't get that immediate positive reaction that those guys get. As it is, it takes a little longer, girls usually have to get to know me a little.

As for Gene Simmons, he may not be the best looking guy in the room, but he probably has the highest SMV due to his fame and money. Although he's probably getting a little too old for the sex symbol act.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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