"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do ugly girls have better personalities?

illmatic1005

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Out of all the girls i know or have heard about..the really ugly to ugly to average girls have the best personalities and the really hot girls have the worst...

most hot girls tend to think theyre the sh!t and are arrogant and are straight up btches and often slutty

but
ugly/average girls are more fun, down to earth, playful, etc

Why is this?
Is it probably because my game is better on UGs since i dont care or want them?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hmmm...I have a feeling this thread is going to turn into a hot girl bashing thread.
 

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Isn't it obvious? They develop attractable personalities to make up for their physical appearance
 

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Because the hot ones don't have to...
 

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it's because they kno tht guys r not goin to stick around them owin to their looks... so they try to keep 'em roped in by mellowin down their arrogant n *****y instincts.

stay beautiful
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The sweetest nicest girls I've ever met were hot, 9s usually. I think ugly chicks develop a callous exterior over time as a self protection. Maybe the hot ones just aren't nice to YOU.
 

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Yeah, I hate this too. I've just recently met three really really cute girls, but they were total b1tches. They were stepping all over my friends and they would just ignore them, and then they tried insulting me and I didn't take their sh1t. My friends start saying to each other "Man he's never gonna get a girl." I was so frustrated, I just wanted to strangle them to death.

The girl I went to prom with was pretty cute, there were other hotter girls I could have chosen, but I loved talking to her.
 

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I know some really hot girls that I went to school with who have really cool, down to earth personalities. Someone you would want to hang out with even if they weren't smoking hot... I think all people have something interesting to offer or a different perspective, sometimes it just takes time to get them to open up...However i can't stand the "cookie cutter" type sorority girl that say "like" 15 times in a sentence and only care about the next social. lol.
 

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The Inside Man said:
I know some really hot girls that I went to school with who have really cool, down to earth personalities. Someone you would want to hang out with even if they weren't smoking hot... I think all people have something interesting to offer or a different perspective, sometimes it just takes time to get them to open up...However i can't stand the "cookie cutter" type sorority girl that say "like" 15 times in a sentence and only care about the next social. lol.
I remember hooking up with this gorgeous girl just a little while ago but she couldn't say more than 5 words per response. She even managed to answer open ended questions with one word. I just couldn't stand her no matter how hot she was. I just couldn't make it work.


Also, as someone mentioned, ugly girls have nice personalities because they have to have nice personalities haha.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The theory is the larger the girl the nicer the personality, but in my experience its much more random, this also goes for shallowness.

One would expect the niceness the increase and shallowness to decrease with body size, but this doesn't seem the be the case. They seem almost randomly nice or not nice.

In fact I've often found the hotter girls nicer than the warpigs in some clubs!

Based mainly on clubs & internet though as a disclaimer.

btw. I also don't agree with this theory that ulgier people have better personalities than hot ones becuase they had to develop personality to compete, IMHO this doesn't work as less attractive people had far fewer oppertunities to interact with opposite sex and develop this personality than attractive ones, thus the attractive ones also had more developed personalities/social skills.
 

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the same reason fat women give the best head.. they don't have a choice
 

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afc_2_dj said:
The I also don't agree with this theory that ulgier people have better personalities than hot ones becuase they had to develop personality to compete, IMHO this doesn't work as less attractive people had far fewer oppertunities to interact with opposite sex and develop this personality than attractive ones, thus the attractive ones also had more developed personalities/social skills.
I never worried about WHY, but that might make sense. I think the "ugly chicks have better personalities" folks are either guessing from a keyboard or they're pissed because they blew it with a few hotties and so it must be the chicks fault, right? :rolleyes:
 

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Didn't read the responses,

They're not, the hot girls just ***** you out because you probably come on too strong. Some of the coolest girls I know are hot, but of course they won't be when they have their ***** shield up cus you're asking them who lies more.
 

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backbreaker said:
fat women give the best head
I have long suspected that, but never heard anyone say it.

The few hot girls I have slept with have been the worst in bed. This does not mean the ugliest ones are the best, but somewhere in between is what I like. It's as though a woman needs a couple flaws to make her work harder.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NickSCFC2000

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I reckon ugly/fat girls have **** personalities, they're bitter towards everyone.

Pretty girls are great characters, but don't push them because like all women they can turn nasty.
 
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