Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why do ugly girls have better personalities?

illmatic1005

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Out of all the girls i know or have heard about..the really ugly to ugly to average girls have the best personalities and the really hot girls have the worst...

most hot girls tend to think theyre the sh!t and are arrogant and are straight up btches and often slutty

but
ugly/average girls are more fun, down to earth, playful, etc

Why is this?
Is it probably because my game is better on UGs since i dont care or want them?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hmmm...I have a feeling this thread is going to turn into a hot girl bashing thread.
 

ligyron

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Isn't it obvious? They develop attractable personalities to make up for their physical appearance
 

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Because the hot ones don't have to...
 

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it's because they kno tht guys r not goin to stick around them owin to their looks... so they try to keep 'em roped in by mellowin down their arrogant n *****y instincts.

stay beautiful
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bigjohnson

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The sweetest nicest girls I've ever met were hot, 9s usually. I think ugly chicks develop a callous exterior over time as a self protection. Maybe the hot ones just aren't nice to YOU.
 

War Against Betaism

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Yeah, I hate this too. I've just recently met three really really cute girls, but they were total b1tches. They were stepping all over my friends and they would just ignore them, and then they tried insulting me and I didn't take their sh1t. My friends start saying to each other "Man he's never gonna get a girl." I was so frustrated, I just wanted to strangle them to death.

The girl I went to prom with was pretty cute, there were other hotter girls I could have chosen, but I loved talking to her.
 

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I know some really hot girls that I went to school with who have really cool, down to earth personalities. Someone you would want to hang out with even if they weren't smoking hot... I think all people have something interesting to offer or a different perspective, sometimes it just takes time to get them to open up...However i can't stand the "cookie cutter" type sorority girl that say "like" 15 times in a sentence and only care about the next social. lol.
 

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The Inside Man said:
I know some really hot girls that I went to school with who have really cool, down to earth personalities. Someone you would want to hang out with even if they weren't smoking hot... I think all people have something interesting to offer or a different perspective, sometimes it just takes time to get them to open up...However i can't stand the "cookie cutter" type sorority girl that say "like" 15 times in a sentence and only care about the next social. lol.
I remember hooking up with this gorgeous girl just a little while ago but she couldn't say more than 5 words per response. She even managed to answer open ended questions with one word. I just couldn't stand her no matter how hot she was. I just couldn't make it work.


Also, as someone mentioned, ugly girls have nice personalities because they have to have nice personalities haha.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The theory is the larger the girl the nicer the personality, but in my experience its much more random, this also goes for shallowness.

One would expect the niceness the increase and shallowness to decrease with body size, but this doesn't seem the be the case. They seem almost randomly nice or not nice.

In fact I've often found the hotter girls nicer than the warpigs in some clubs!

Based mainly on clubs & internet though as a disclaimer.

btw. I also don't agree with this theory that ulgier people have better personalities than hot ones becuase they had to develop personality to compete, IMHO this doesn't work as less attractive people had far fewer oppertunities to interact with opposite sex and develop this personality than attractive ones, thus the attractive ones also had more developed personalities/social skills.
 

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the same reason fat women give the best head.. they don't have a choice
 

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afc_2_dj said:
The I also don't agree with this theory that ulgier people have better personalities than hot ones becuase they had to develop personality to compete, IMHO this doesn't work as less attractive people had far fewer oppertunities to interact with opposite sex and develop this personality than attractive ones, thus the attractive ones also had more developed personalities/social skills.
I never worried about WHY, but that might make sense. I think the "ugly chicks have better personalities" folks are either guessing from a keyboard or they're pissed because they blew it with a few hotties and so it must be the chicks fault, right? :rolleyes:
 

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Didn't read the responses,

They're not, the hot girls just ***** you out because you probably come on too strong. Some of the coolest girls I know are hot, but of course they won't be when they have their ***** shield up cus you're asking them who lies more.
 

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backbreaker said:
fat women give the best head
I have long suspected that, but never heard anyone say it.

The few hot girls I have slept with have been the worst in bed. This does not mean the ugliest ones are the best, but somewhere in between is what I like. It's as though a woman needs a couple flaws to make her work harder.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NickSCFC2000

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I reckon ugly/fat girls have **** personalities, they're bitter towards everyone.

Pretty girls are great characters, but don't push them because like all women they can turn nasty.
 
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