"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do they do this ......9 months??

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I was dating this slut for 8 months, and "I" dumped her for cheating on me and never looked back. I just basically walked away. Couple months after i dumped her, i seen her at the club with an old friend of mine. I paid her no attention, as she tried to re-initiate contact by touching me as i walked by.

Im currently dating this chic for the past couple months. Yesterday, the x-slut called my home phone outta the blue.She has neva made an attempt to call since i dumped her, but now - WTF??? She got to the answering machine and just hung up. I knew it was her because caller i.d. Apparently she still has my #, as i have disabled hers from my home and cell phones

Why do they always do this crap. They come back sooner or later?:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Simply because girls are stupid and they almost always want somehting they cant have. You're with a new girl, and it is showing her what she is missing out on and what she left behind. You may be over her, but she wants you back simply because you have a new girl and she wants what she cant have. Just tell her you're not interested anymore and that she had her chance, and that she f^cked up and that you've moved on. Ignore her from then on.
 
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Simply because girls are stupid and they almost always want somehting they cant have. You're with a new girl, and it is showing her what she is missing out on and what she left behind. You may be over her, but she wants you back simply because you have a new girl and she wants what she cant have. Just tell her you're not interested anymore and that she had her chance, and that she f^cked up and that you've moved on. Ignore her from then on.
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Took the words right out of my mouth...
 
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Women do this because they also suffer from one-itis as well.

She f*cked around on you...big time. So you dropped her and cut off all contact like a DJ should do. Now months later, she realizes that she didn't break you..that you didn't cry or piss or mown.

After the sex fizzled with the guy she played you with..she started to get the one-itis for you.

On top of that...many women are ATTENTION WH*RES and will take any and all compliments they can get. And what compliment is bigger to a woman than to get attention back from the guy she screwed over in the past.

If she could play you for another man, lose contact with you for 8-9 months, then reappear and assume that you'll be her boy toy again...what a f*cking BIYATCH!

I'd FB her in the as*hole
 
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Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
Simply because girls are stupid and they almost always want somehting they cant have. You're with a new girl, and it is showing her what she is missing out on and what she left behind. You may be over her, but she wants you back simply because you have a new girl and she wants what she cant have. Just tell her you're not interested anymore and that she had her chance, and that she f^cked up and that you've moved on. Ignore her from then on.
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Listen to the chick.

Once you were with her for 8 months, either you got lazy or she started feeling like she "had" you. She started seeing your little flaws and tried to see what ELSE she could have...whether she could do one better.

When you walked out, she started wondering if maybe she HADN'T had you by the balls like she thought. But if when she comes to you you turn around and pursue again, she will think even MORE that she OWNS you.

Safest thing to do is to just let her stew. She HAD the prize, she turned it down. Her loss...it'll go to someone else.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by squirrels
Listen to the chick.

Once you were with her for 8 months, either you got lazy or she started feeling like she "had" you. She started seeing your little flaws and tried to see what ELSE she could have...whether she could do one better.

When you walked out, she started wondering if maybe she HADN'T had you by the balls like she thought. But if when she comes to you you turn around and pursue again, she will think even MORE that she OWNS you.

Safest thing to do is to just let her stew. She HAD the prize, she turned it down. Her loss...it'll go to someone else.
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took the words right out of my mouth.
 
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Originally posted by squirrels
Listen to the chick.

Once you were with her for 8 months, either you got lazy or she started feeling like she "had" you. She started seeing your little flaws and tried to see what ELSE she could have...whether she could do one better.

When you walked out, she started wondering if maybe she HADN'T had you by the balls like she thought. But if when she comes to you you turn around and pursue again, she will think even MORE that she OWNS you.

Safest thing to do is to just let her stew. She HAD the prize, she turned it down. Her loss...it'll go to someone else.
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This is excellent advice, if she somehow gets him to go back with her, she will stick him with as many knives as she can.
 
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