"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why do they always come back???

FrankWank

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No matter what happens. You dump them or they dump you. They ALWAYS come back

I dumped this chic for cheating on me back in march of 04, and she called my home phone the other day. She didnt leave a message. just hung up leaving her name and # on the caller i.d.

Dont know what she wants. Im seeing someone right now, now thinking if the x calls again, to answer and talk. Get together and bang her on the side and dump her when she starts acting up again?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tom121

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she probably got dumped and feel someone need to be there to comfort her or she was just bored
 

Marcopolo

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This may or may not be a sign of mental health issues that she has. Often chicks with Borderline Persoanlity Disorder will do this, it is commonly known as "hoovering". They are also known to cheat on boyfriends and to call previous lovers if their current relationship is rocky. They do this because they cannot stand being alone. To some extent this is typical female behavior, but BPD is sort of like female behavior to the 10th power. I would stay away from her.
 

Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by Marcopolo
This may or may not be a sign of mental health issues that she has. Often chicks with Borderline Persoanlity Disorder will do this, it is commonly known as "hoovering". They are also known to cheat on boyfriends and to call previous lovers if their current relationship is rocky. They do this because they cannot stand being alone. To some extent this is typical female behavior, but BPD is sort of like female behavior to the 10th power. I would stay away from her.
Good point!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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