"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Why do they always come back???

FrankWank

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 2, 2004
Messages
112
Reaction score
0
No matter what happens. You dump them or they dump you. They ALWAYS come back

I dumped this chic for cheating on me back in march of 04, and she called my home phone the other day. She didnt leave a message. just hung up leaving her name and # on the caller i.d.

Dont know what she wants. Im seeing someone right now, now thinking if the x calls again, to answer and talk. Get together and bang her on the side and dump her when she starts acting up again?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

tom121

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2004
Messages
334
Reaction score
0
she probably got dumped and feel someone need to be there to comfort her or she was just bored
 

Marcopolo

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 27, 2004
Messages
213
Reaction score
2
Location
California, the Bay Area
This may or may not be a sign of mental health issues that she has. Often chicks with Borderline Persoanlity Disorder will do this, it is commonly known as "hoovering". They are also known to cheat on boyfriends and to call previous lovers if their current relationship is rocky. They do this because they cannot stand being alone. To some extent this is typical female behavior, but BPD is sort of like female behavior to the 10th power. I would stay away from her.
 

Blue Phoenix

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2004
Messages
1,335
Reaction score
27
Originally posted by Marcopolo
This may or may not be a sign of mental health issues that she has. Often chicks with Borderline Persoanlity Disorder will do this, it is commonly known as "hoovering". They are also known to cheat on boyfriends and to call previous lovers if their current relationship is rocky. They do this because they cannot stand being alone. To some extent this is typical female behavior, but BPD is sort of like female behavior to the 10th power. I would stay away from her.
Good point!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top