Why do some women hyper-focus on one thing at a time, then completely switch off?

[jhonny9546]

How many of you have ever been in a relationship where the woman would have focused on things "one at a time"?

To give you an example,
if it had been the time to have sex, then we would have had sex two or three times a day for months.
Then "studying for the exam" would have taken over, and then no sex; now the focus is obsessively on the exam. She studies 24/7.
Then it would have been time to get Invisalign, so for a year, little sex, and all the focus on Invisalign.
Then it would have been time to lose weight at the gym, and then the focus would have been on that.
Then again it would have been the time when some slightly dirty Netflix series came out, and so for four or five months, sex two or three times a day...

As if everything else didn't matter. She may have periods where she can't go without sex for five hours, and then have periods where she can go without sex for five months.

If someone has these patterns, what does it mean?

(I'm talking about women)

 

[Jor-El]

I had a GF exactly like that,it turned out she was BPD...not saying your gal is,but,that was my experience

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I'm not sure why you act like this is a "woman" issue. Plenty of men fall into this category too.

 

[bmp2cpm]

“How many of you have ever been in a relationship where the woman would have focused on things "one at a time"?” - I have. It is exhausting.

As for “why”, the woman’s drive and motivations are based off of her feelings of low self-worth.

The woman goes from one thing to another on a never-ending-quest so she can temporarily feel good about herself. When the positive effects wear off, it is off to the next “passion”.

 

[Ricky]

That’s interesting. Surprised i haven’t run into that archetype before