"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Latinoman

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Rollo Tomassi said:
NEXT!

How many times will I have to repeat myself? NO SINGLE MOMMIES - EVER!
That's MY policy too. I don't get in serious relationships with any. I can't.

That being said...he WANTS to be a father figure to that child. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Latinoman said:
She is protecting her child. You should admire her for that. Now...if you two were in a COMMITTED relationship and if you two were together for let's say 6 months (or more) and she STILL has not introduce you to her child...then, that's a different story.
i agree with lationman.
how long had you been dating her anyways?
 

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I think this is a case is over thinking.

1. She wants to know how your Dad is.

2. She doesn't hate you. (But the relationship days are over.)

I see no reverse psychology, forward psychology, or any manipulation here. She just said, "how's your Dad; keep in touch (but not that kind of touch)." She most likely didn't think about it at all. And neither should you. Just tell her you're doing fine. There's nothing to see here. Move along.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Actually, the greatest artists in history are all men, but,...
You are correct. That being said, Picasso once said: "I am a woman. Every artist is a woman and should have a taste for other women. Artists who are homosexual cannot be true artists because they like men, and since they themselves are women they are reverting to normality."
 

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Phyzzle said:
I think this is a case is over thinking.

1. She wants to know how your Dad is.

2. She doesn't hate you. (But the relationship days are over.)

I see no reverse psychology, forward psychology, or any manipulation here. She just said, "how's your Dad; keep in touch (but not that kind of touch)." She most likely didn't think about it at all. And neither should you. Just tell her you're doing fine. There's nothing to see here. Move along.

I hadn't thought about her or this since I posted this.

Good advice though thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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