"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why do some things just feel plain weird? Read this!

lokariototal

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Ok! so im trying to learn how to kiss close and develop some thick skin in the process. And i felt like hmm.. what should i do!?? so i decided to do an experiment. I was chatting with this girl i know from my school and I asked her, first, CAN i ask u a weird question? Then, I asked her if she was a good kisser. As i was doing this, I felt doing this was weird as hell, but that I didnt know how to kiss close so i had to try something and see if it works. She said well, yeah..... i consider myuself a good kisser, but im with someone. She said it was weird and i had a moment of embarassment. In real life, it has also happened that trying to 'isolate' her, just feels plain weird.

Why is this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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vagrant

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Create the attraction first before the kiss close. If she's attracted to you everything will fall to pieces. Note that not all girls will be attracted to you no matter what you do.

Asking are you a good kisser is a p*ssy way of saying I want to kiss you. You never ask you just do. Start with kino and you move on from there. It's my first time ever using that word but it's really how it goes.

Hold her hands or play with her hair or whatever. When you're opening the door for her let her go in first then follow her while you put your hand gently on her back near her shoulder. Kino doesn't happen on its own, you make the opportunity for it to happen.

I don't know if your car is manual but I remember I had this chick in my car and I asked if she knew how to drive one. She said she didn't. So then I showed her how to shift the gears from 1 to 5. After that I grabbed her hand and I showed her how to shift the gears from 1 to 5. Still holding her hands while teaching her how to put the car in reverse. She was feeling all kinds of emotions from shy, to nervous, to excited and h*rny while I was looking at her eyes and I never once asked if she was a good kisser.

I knew she was ready to be taken because I could see her feeling weak and the color of her face was changing and she would look down when I tried to make eye contact with her and the minute that she gazed down avoiding my eyes I just went for it and the next thing you know we were making out.

I was able to do this because I was having fun and she was having fun. Don't be too serious and don't think too much of her not liking you or anything. I knew she was in my car for a reason.

Some guys here are saying over and over again never to focus on getting a woman but instead to focus on you and focus on enjoying life. That's the main ingredient in getting a woman. :up:
 

cola

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Im not too big on kissing random fluzees.. Thats kind of gross.. I'll bang a random fluzee but kissing is kinda gross..
 
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