Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Probably the closest she's gonna get to men of the past in as far as a greater chance of these type of men telling her to stfu when she acts childish and higher likelihood of banging other chicks if and when she drops the ball.noobolgy said:
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Hold up, so you're saying being hardworking and reliable (in a sense, not reliable as in "always there") is a turn off? Seems like a quality more suited to highly unstable women. This hardly seems the case. Most women I know and the few I've dated who follow or have previously followed the fixxer-upper route seem to be shells of human beings themselves, not worth much of anything. Don't get me wrong, being a ***** is unattractive, nobody like a pansy. But, if being a lethargic bum with serious flaws is what all women want, I've been living my life and going about following my goal all the wrong way, at least in the terms of being attractive.( . )( . ) said:
I wouldn't say they are a turn off per se. However her own disposable income, guaranteed wealth distribution from big daddy alpha government if and when she needs it, combined with 4 decades of unchecked hypergamy and the glorification of the "cad" assures those qualities are no longer prized. At least among pre-wall women.SJ413 said:
and you just described my last relationship.pinkfl said:
But I never cheated. Don't jerks/ bad boys usually cheat?PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I don't understand the whole "fix men" idea, but it seems to be true. This might explain why I have gotten a lot of female attention at times when I was fed up and got really whiney and complaining about my love life. It's a total beta attitude so from what they say here it should repel them, but like you say, they seem to want to fix you. Maybe it's a nurturing thing, I don't know.Wolfbones said:
True I am a very good bull****ter if I'm motivated.Mike32ct said: