"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why do some girls think just because we talk to them we want what inside there pants?
- Thread starter knight56
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
Yeah, but I want to see what a girl is like before I'm going to want to hook up with her, I don't care how pretty she is.
Attractive women often degrade men thinking that they're nothing more than just sex crazed animals who will do anything for them in the effort of getting in their pants. These women need to be told the words, "don't flatter yourself, honey" with a smile.
luv_ya_amj
Don Juan
Some say it's "true" and some say it isn't...
Hmm-di-hmm...
I guess from now on when ANY guy tries to talk to me tomorrow -- I'll just walk away IMMEDIATELY...!! (aww...boo hoo.)
IF PARANOIA'S what it takes, I will DO IT!
Oh wait (AGAIN)! Doesn't it just depend on the GUY? Some of you are crazy and some aren't?!?!
Yup...I'm-a-gonna put up a vote thing-a-majig and find out...or just look the dam* thing up...
TheNonPedant
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.