Why do so many women complain about online dating?

[bigdave17]

Damn dude, four page rapid DAVE thread explosion.

amarante has given me great advice, as he typically does

good thread overall

 

[bigdave17]

Of course.

But the friend that she turned to that night dropped her jaw. She was shocked at her rude behavior.

I ended up chatting that other girl up.

Being masculine is not all about a jaw lines or the amount of beard stubble you have.

It's about being invincible in the face of adversity and apparent shame.

Sometimes failed approaches can be the best time to display your greatest strength.

I suppose you can always test the water lightly at first and if she blows you out or is not responsive, then you just walk away

The most ironic aspect of this whole thing is selling cars and picking up women are very very similar and I might be the best car salesman in Illinois. I guess the difference is that I don't get care if I hear a no at work, but I have a lot more anxiety/fear when it comes to approaching women.

I'm also very defeatist with women and feel like they're never interested in meeting anybody and I would annoy them to death if I approached them. That's the biggest thing that kills me - I feel totally hopeless

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

You guys are living in fantasy land.

 

[Soflobro#3]

the latina woman approached me and was crazy about me instantly

you're comparing that to having to cold approach a non single mom HBB who is out with a huge group of friends who is probably not even in the market to meet anybody?

Then just go sit in a coffee shop or something and wait for one to fall into your lap.

 

[Roober]

Theres also likely a big difference in paying for the service or using freebies. I remember a guy who met his wife on eharmony. And he made a good point, that people are paying so they have some skin in the game, they are more likely looking to meet up and move things forward. I believe even @Amante Silvestre attests to this.

Think about it, the free sites or unpaid services, anyone can create a profile in less than 5 minutes. People can do this on their lunch breaks, when they feel distant from their partner, or at any time they want. People are much less likely to drop 30+ bucks and not seek to get something back for their money...

 

[bigdave17]

Then just go sit in a coffee shop or something and wait for one to fall into your lap.

lol I doubt that will ever happen with somebody who fits my incredibly specific taste

I have to be honest with myself

 

[Soflobro#3]

lol I doubt that will ever happen with somebody who fits my incredibly specific taste

I have to be honest with myself

There's no other way

 

[bigdave17]

There's no other way

there are so many incredibly hot women at my gym. God I wish I could talk to them

There was one today - cute face, dark features (although she was white), big round bubble butt, athletic, legs. Fukk me, I almost crashed my car when I saw her walk outside the gym


I just dunno wtf to say that wouldn't make me come across as incredibly awkward or the typical gym douchebag. In my head, anything I say will make me sound like a loser and she's not in market to meet anybody anyways

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I'm about a 9.5/10. I don't think i've ever seen an Armenian dude better looking than me.

I want somebody with the same impeccable morals and character like I have

You are a catch.

 

[bigdave17]

You are a catch.

the comment about Armenian men is more about them being butt ass ugly


holy f*ck, the women are sooooooooo much better looking than the men in our culture. All the way from 25 until about 80. The women have beautiful skin that ages great (much better than white peoples) but the men usually lose all their hair and end up looking old, **** I started losing hair at 25 - I Just got a transplant done to take me back to having near perfect hair. I'm on finnasteride/rogaine/nizoral to make sure I keep my hair long term. My dad was totally bald by my age

 

[Soflobro#3]

there are so many incredibly hot women at my gym. God I wish I could talk to them

There was one today - cute face, dark features (although she was white), big round bubble butt, athletic, legs. Fukk me, I almost crashed my car when I saw her walk outside the gym


I just dunno wtf to say that wouldn't make me come across as incredibly awkward or the typical gym douchebag. In my head, anything I say will make me sound like a loser and she's not in market to meet anybody anyways

As your walking past just wink at her, smile, point your i index finger at her with your thumb vertical and say "what dat booty do" like a baller.

 

[The_411]

Dave,

One of my long time friends is Armenian via Lebanon. Probably looks the same as you had money and he did well. His brother absolutely slayed. He had 9s stalking him.

Being exotic is only a bad thing if you do not embrace it. Sure, there will be certain women who will simply rule you out based on your look, but how is that any different than a woman that shuts down a white guy because she’s not attracted to him.

Your issue is self-limiting doubt.

If you never get nasty rejections it means you aren’t being aggressive enough.

Stop worrying about one specific girl and meet all sorts of girls.

Getting attactive women isn’t trying to get them but rather them trying to get you.

It comes down to who demonstrates more value.

If there is a 9 hiding in a group of 7 get in with the girl who is vibing you and play with her in a friendly manner to have her be your pivot and open the nine for you.

These are the things you learn from going out an approaching over and over again and seeing what works for you and what doesn’t.

 

[bigdave17]

Dave,

One of my long time friends is Armenian via Lebanon. Probably looks the same as you had money and he did well. His brother absolutely slayed. He had 9s stalking him.

Being exotic is only a bad thing if you do not embrace it. Sure, there will be certain women who will simply rule you out based on your look, but how is that any different than a woman that shuts down a white guy because she’s not attracted to him.

Your issue is self-limiting doubt.

If you never get nasty rejections it means you aren’t being aggressive enough.

Stop worrying about one specific girl and meet all sorts of girls.

Getting attactive women isn’t trying to get them but rather them trying to get you.

It comes down to who demonstrates more value.

If there is a 9 hiding in a group of 7 get in with the girl who is vibing you and play with her in a friendly manner to have her be your pivot and open the nine for you.

These are the things you learn from going out an approaching over and over again and seeing what works for you and what doesn’t.

my ethnicity should be no issue considering I'm going after women preferably about as dark as I am

I don't really care for light skin white girls. Tend to be skinny/flat and tend to age poorly. Armenian girls for example always have great ass and tits, beautiful darker skin, thick dark hair, etc....

 

[Soflobro#3]

my ethnicity should be no issue considering I'm going after women preferably about as dark as I am

I don't really care for light skin white girls. Tend to be skinny/flat and tend to age poorly. Armenian girls for example always have great ass and tits, beautiful darker skin, thick dark hair, etc....

Dave just admit it you're trolling all of us right now.

 

[17 shots]

i browsed male section of match.com once

Oh did you now