Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why do rappers marry unattractive women?

blue11199

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To me, rappers should be at the top of their game. They have the money, cars, clothes, bling bling, swagger, and ****y attitude girls go crazy for. I would think ' rappers are the epitome of what girls find attractive in men. However, if you look at the wives of Snoop Dogg, Eminem, T.I., Ja Rule, DMX, 50 Cent, and Diddy, you'll realize none of them are higher than a 6. Why is this?

Snoop Dogg's wife:
http://realitytvmagazine.sheknows.com/blog/images/2008/06/snoop_dogg_wife_shante_arrested.jpg

Eminem's:
http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2004/04/news/040712/kmathers.jpg

TI AND Lil Wayne's former girlfriend:
http://www.cugaentertainment.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/tis-wife-217x300.jpg

DMX
http://api.ning.com/files/FjSqnXtTl...wj2u3RPzDsQl5rVvoT0fQ1G2hf1l-5/dmxandwife.jpg

50 Cent's baby mother:
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_hl_61GxM_Kg/SH4F8_gELwI/AAAAAAAAAA8/tzAG72nRGcg/s400/1817_1213273167.jpg

I really look up to rappers like Snoop Dogg. He has this amazing, smooth, "i'm the ****" aura of confidence I would expect every true DJ to also exhude, and these rappers get so much marketing in their music videos to enhance their images as true ballers. But their wives are so hideous, and this really perplexes me. The only rapper with a hot wife is probably Jay-Z. Does anyone have an explanation? Should I stop listening to gangster rap?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybe they were with the women before they got famous? I don't know but I think I would stay with my girl after she was always there while I was trying to make it big as a rapper. Personally, I don't think I would want a drop dead gorgeous woman as my wife..
 

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my concern is are girls really able to catch on that these rappers are not relationship material? i know rappers get plenty of groupie love. and why do some rappers like tupac even resort to rape? i can not understand this, especially when Tupac has dated the likes of Madonna.
 

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blue11199 said:
I really look up to rappers like Snoop Dogg
He's also a murderer and a drug addict. His lyrics are filled with degrading women (calling them hoes), getting money (greed), and smoking chronic or doing drugs.

While he might have confidence ( I dont know snoop in person so I couldn't tell you), but I'm sure you could find more honorable people to look up to.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blue11199

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yes, of course, i don't condone his criminal records, but i really admire his smooth confidence. i can't think of any other celebrity who can match snoop's level of laid back, coolness and he knows how to have fun too.
 

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In the case of Snoop, he's been with that woman since high school. Maybe that's the case for the others too, they've just been loyal to the same girl since before they were famous. You can be sure these guys are fcking everything that moves on the side though.
 

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because these were the woman they were with before the became famous.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Its not always about looks. Its about who you can really connect with. I know that may sound like Nice Guy talk but, its true. I dont start a relationship with some girl who I dont vibe with.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First, stop looking up to rappers. Either they're lying or they have done some stuff that really ain't worth doing.

Second, you forgot Ice-T. His wife looks pretty good. Then Lil Wayne's ex-wife don''t look too bad either.

But, like someone said, some of these women were from before these guys got famous. Some have stuck by their men through it all and really deserve respect for that. Some probably have the guy wishing he pushed them in front of a train when they first met. The thing is though that if a guy would rather be with his wife than some other woman he could easily meet on the road, it's his business.
 

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Because rappers are unintelligent, ugly, pathetic behaving lowlife creatures without style.
 

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blue11199 said:
I really look up to rappers like Snoop Dogg.
So you want to be a pathetic low life some day? Sure he's got some musical talent but that's all he's got. The only difference between him and a crackhead on the street is that he has a recording contract.


He has this amazing, smooth, "i'm the ****" aura of confidence I would expect every true DJ to also exhude, and these rappers get so much marketing in their music videos to enhance their images as true ballers. But their wives are so hideous, and this really perplexes me. The only rapper with a hot wife is probably Jay-Z. Does anyone have an explanation?
You just answered your own question. Marketing can be alot of things. It includes PR. I bet Snoop has at least a few agents to help manage his public image. He only shows you want he wants you to see, so of course he comes off as some smooth playboy because it helps to push his product.
 

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Wiesman44 said:
He's also a murderer and a drug addict. His lyrics are filled with degrading women (calling them hoes), getting money (greed), and smoking chronic or doing drugs.

While he might have confidence ( I dont know snoop in person so I couldn't tell you), but I'm sure you could find more honorable people to look up to.
+1. While these guys may have women you could argue they are total AFC's. If people didn't buy their music, not really music just someone yacking their mouth off, then what would they do or be?
 

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Stagger Lee said:
+1. While these guys may have women you could argue they are total AFC's. If people didn't buy their music, not really music just someone yacking their mouth off, then what would they do or be?
They just have a steady stream of hoes that are attracted to their false persona. They didn't put any work into making themselves attractive or have to have any game whatsoever. They don't have to. It's done for them. It takes a team of people to represent and create someone like Snoop Dog.

That's why their wives are ugly. Because that's the best they can actually do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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most likely they knew them before they got rich. its better to marry a woman that actually loves you instead of your money. and they **** the models on the side so why marry those gold diggers?
 

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Those rappers are not marriage material to begin with. Most rap is negative. Ever tried getting a girl using Black Game? I don't mean that most black men use this method to get girls, but most rappers seem like the kind to do this: Hey *****, you got a man? Oh you do? He probably can't please you like I can. He doesn't drive a hot car like me... They dis the man in order to get his girl. It doesn't work well.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
They just have a steady stream of hoes that are attracted to their false persona. They didn't put any work into making themselves attractive or have to have any game whatsoever. They don't have to. It's done for them. It takes a team of people to represent and create someone like Snoop Dog.

That's why their wives are ugly. Because that's the best they can actually do.
They get a steady stream of ONS, but no real love for them in the end.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
They just have a steady stream of hoes that are attracted to their false persona. They didn't put any work into making themselves attractive or have to have any game whatsoever. They don't have to. It's done for them. It takes a team of people to represent and create someone like Snoop Dog.

That's why their wives are ugly. Because that's the best they can actually do.
I seriously doubt it. Snoop could drop his trousers at a concert and say "suck my d-ck" and have girls running up to do it.

http://eastofla.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/snoop-dogg-gal-ema.jpg
http://streetknowledge.files.wordpress.com/2008/07/snoop-3a.jpg
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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