"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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teacha

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PUA is crap.

...being alpha is whatever I want it to be. Fvck all of you and your alpha definitions they dont mean shit to me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thedude4242

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=179022

another example. a man with one of the most decorated member names and looks what he is into. I think many of these guys are still AFC dudes, learn a few routines and now are experts because they say what the others guys say.

if you want real "game" let me know guys. I have already turned one geeky afc into a dominating confident male. he is the exact opposite.
 

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Hate it to break it to you guys but if your saying there is no such thing as an alpha male then your trying to justify your lack of dominancy.

A woman who is surrounded by a bunch of losers who are buying her drinks and giving her compliments wants the guy who isn't gonna just give into her looks. The Alpha female wants the Alpha male because he is showing dominance in the most subtle ways. He doesn't just start kissing her ass like all the beta males, he sits back, chats with his buddies, says hello but doesn't stop everything he's doing for her. Women love that ****, and High demand women, while not neccasarily loving it, are drawn to a man they can't fully control.

If you are trying to say there is no such thing, you are trying to cover up your own insecurities because you don't know wich one you are. Don't be afraid of that, acknowledge it.

Oh, and you can become an alpha male its not like its a rare gene passed down from father to son or something.
 

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thedude4242 said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=179022

another example. a man with one of the most decorated member names and looks what he is into. I think many of these guys are still AFC dudes, learn a few routines and now are experts because they say what the others guys say.

if you want real "game" let me know guys. I have already turned one geeky afc into a dominating confident male. he is the exact opposite.

God damn. What's with people registering for this site, posting on it repeatedly, and then returning for the sole purpose of telling us that this site sucks?

Do you go into restaurants you dislike, order their food, pay for it, and spend the entire meal telling them how you're a better cook than them?

If you're an expert at "game" then go ahead and show it. Talking about it on the internet isn't building any cred for you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thedude4242

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falcon25, because when people start not wanting or believing in PUA, that is less money in their pocket. maybe the author of the thread deleted it.

thundernuts- I didnt say there were no such thing as alpha males. there are alpha males but you either are one or your not. but making money is not going to make you one. your car, job, house, money, degree, ect will not qualify as one or will never make you one. I didnt say I had expert game, I am just trying to help other guys out. one of the board members had 1,600 posts and a decorated profile but was what you would call an "AFC" and getting treated like a b!tch by his girlfriend and she was hanging out with ex-boyfriends and she tolf him he was one. how many other guys on the forum are posers. some guys here see a few things they like and use them as their "dj bible" but are justing posing on the net as something they really want to be by using these terms and think they are a dj and some expert when they are no better than any noobie. I think there are some nice guys on the forum and its nice to see what they have to say. there is no proof that anyone on the forum has ever had sex or are ever with girls (inlcuding myself)
 

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Like the forum? . Stay.
Even if you want to be a Keayboar Jockey or however it's called.

It is important to learn to filter information.
How?
Read the bibble. PERIOD!

SS is definetly not about PUAs so STOP SAYING "PUA".

Alfa male? whatever....
Don Juan? Hell yeah!

What is a DJ?
To me is a...........
To you?
Read the bibble, try things out, come ask stuff, go out again and try, learn, experience stuff, read, learn, try.... BAM! now you have an idea of what a DJ is.

To me, SS has worked marvellously every single time I've tried to apply stuff I consider.

AND VERY IMPORTANT: read my signature !!! =)

BTW, what is the purpose of your thread?
 

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In the old days the server would bounce and recent posts would evaporate. Just sayin'.
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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