Dhoulmagus
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I have friends that are chill and cool to be around, but turn in to hunger games survival mode when around females.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why do most men turn in to idiots around girls
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
They give pu$$$y a highly inflated market value & show their hand right off the bat because they have no game.
PIMP
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namismybabe
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as the old saying goes, they put ***** on a pedestal.
In my experiences, it's nerds/geeks, people who have not grown up around women much, or people who listen too much to society and still believe in archaic gender relations who act like this.
I'd think most modern guys (say who've grown up since the late 90s or so) don't think women cannot be related to normally.
In my experiences, it's nerds/geeks, people who have not grown up around women much, or people who listen too much to society and still believe in archaic gender relations who act like this.
I'd think most modern guys (say who've grown up since the late 90s or so) don't think women cannot be related to normally.
I see this a lot. It's really, really pathetic how men try and act tough in front of girls to try and impress them. I see it as they are insecure and simply don't feel comfortable being their true self in front of them.
The funny thing is though, is that what ever girl they get (if they do) it will only be a matter of time before she works out how much of a looser he actually is and dumps him :crackup: . Then you get to see the even better side to him
............. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
The funny thing is though, is that what ever girl they get (if they do) it will only be a matter of time before she works out how much of a looser he actually is and dumps him :crackup: . Then you get to see the even better side to him
............. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
A lot of guys are so visually-driven that the moment they SEE a woman who attracts them physically, they freeze like deer caught in the headlights (so to speak...lol). Then, because the flow of their blood has temporarily started moving to their smaller head---it takes awhile before they can get it reversed and flowing back up to their big head.
One of the best ways to prevent or reduce this effect is for guys to find ways to SURROUND themselves with as many attractive women as possible---and as often as possible.
This is one proven way for guys to build up an immunity to the CONSIDERABLE allure of the female form.
Soldier on.
V.U.
PlayHer Man
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Because they are faggots.Dhoulmagus said:
Of the beta variety. :yes:
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
you know how the common folk freak out around celebrities, but those who hang out with/see celebrities all the time don't think it's that big of a deal?
it's like that, but with women instead.
it's like that, but with women instead.