Why do most men pamper women?

[TheManMasenko]

I’m recalling my previous relationships and looking at close peers/family relationships and I realized that most men pamper women.

Isn’t compromising a feminine position?

By “pamper”, I mean letting women have their way over petty things. Such as, a designated parking spot just for her. If I’m parked in it, I must move or issues will occur. Or if she’s ignoring me I must comply.

Do you guys do this? How comes?

 

[EyeBRollin]

That’s not “pampering.”

Compromising is required for two people to get along and coexist long term. It is not “feminine.” The idea is if you let her “win” shvt you don’t care much about, she gets to feel good about it. That way when you say “no” on more important things the relationship has balance to it.

In chess, they call it a gambit.

 

[Epimanes]

Pick your battles carefully in an LTR... some shyts not worth making a fuss about...I'd only make a fuss if it was vital or super important...

 

[BackInTheGame78]

"Most"?

Speak for yourself. I think the ones who feel they don't have much to offer outside their money or what they can do for a woman are the ones who do that.

Effectively, it's what they feel they "bring to the table".

Also, they likely fear they will lose them if they don't to another guy who will. But that again comes from their own insecurities about what they have to offer, or in their minds, what they don't have to offer

 

[Bokanovsky]

I’m recalling my previous relationships and looking at close peers/family relationships and I realized that most men pamper women.

Isn’t compromising a feminine position?

By “pamper”, I mean letting women have their way over petty things. Such as, a designated parking spot just for her. If I’m parked in it, I must move or issues will occur. Or if she’s ignoring me I must comply.

Do you guys do this? How comes?

A combination of insecurity, stupidly, societal pressure and proneness to being manipulated.

 

[Stuffnu]

Women pamper - men provides and leads. This is the natural order of things…

 

[LTG71]

You pamper those whom you cherish. You pamper your family, close friends and those who have your back. Men will tolerate a lot of BS in this process. Problem is some take this quality for granted. Also the biological predisposition to provide and protect women and children. Unfortunately sometimes we give this pampering to ppl who don’t deserve it.

 

[SW15]

Men that pamper women do so because they believe that doing so will get them laid.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Compromising for a rational human being is one thing, compromising for a child is another