"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why do men like thinner girls than fat ones?

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Is evoluton behind this? Maybe thinner girls, because they were not fat in ancient times were seen as more viable to sustain the human race?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Look man, FAT PEOPLE RULE! Period. End of Story.
 

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its natural to desire the desireable, which through past events and the media is shown as the thin girl with a skinny waist, nice boobs and a nice butt.....mmmm.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bigjohnson said:
It's just western societal conditioning.
fat typically = unhealthy. It doesn't take societal conditioning to weed out unhealthy people.
 

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I don't know what you mean by fat. I happen to love thick, rubenesque women who still have good tone, flat stomach, prominent ass and a nice hip/waist ratio.To me that's a REAL woman. I don't like women who have ribs showing.
 

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I disagree.

Fashion and taste for women changes throughout the years. Back then, slightly larger women were considered beautiful and attractive. Hence, those paintings of those massive women. It was considered a sign of beauty.

Not too long ago, Marilyn Monroe was considered the most sexiest woman alive. If you look at her body frame and compare it to the "hottest woman" for the past 20 years. Well, there's just no comparison.
 

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^ All those women are still within the range of "fit". There's a difference between vuluptuous and overweight.
 

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I'd take Marilyn Monroe over any "supermodel" Madison Street is putting out any day. I'll bet half the people who pick these models aren't even attracted to women but are actually gay.

I don't think "taste for women" has changed throughout the years, it's just these people in New York or Hollywood are run by a bunch of gay people and trying to figure out who to cast for the next movie/set.

Marilyn Monroe trumps Kate Moss any day of the week. I like voluptuous women with big boobs and as long as she's not fat I'm fine. I don't care so much about the butt. However when there's a skinny girl who takes care of herself and is thin and shapely that's awesome too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think tastes vary from generation to generation as far as weight, but one thing remains a constaint, and that's the right hip to waist ratio. A woman can be large or small, but if she has that .7 hip to waist ratio, I'll think she's sexy as hell.
 

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speakeasy said:
I think tastes vary from generation to generation as far as weight, but one thing remains a constaint, and that's the right hip to waist ratio. A woman can be large or small, but if she has that .7 hip to waist ratio, I'll think she's sexy as hell.

This might be a winner.


For me, as long as the woman isn't jiggling all over, looks like a manatee, and has that decent hip to waist ratio, she's a winner
 

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Kev07 said:
This might be a winner.


For me, as long as the woman isn't jiggling all over, looks like a manatee, and has that decent hip to waist ratio, she's a winner
You want a woman who looks like a manatee?
 

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This thread actually makes me think about a causal friend of mine who is engaged to a fat chick.

When a guy marries a fat girl, does that mean he doesnt think that highly of himself in terms of being able to land a normal weight girl?

This guy is not fat be he's kind of dorky although he dresses well. He just has a choir boy innocent image about him.

I don't know, I just want to know what goes through somebodys head when they decide they want to marry an obese chick because
I would have to be single for a loooooooooooooooooong time before I start looking in that direction
 

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Master Bates said:
^ All those women are still within the range of "fit". There's a difference between vuluptuous and overweight.
Someone should tell a bunch of women that. :p But personally my cut-off point is "curvy."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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st_99 said:
This thread actually makes me think about a causal friend of mine who is engaged to a fat chick.

When a guy marries a fat girl, does that mean he doesnt think that highly of himself in terms of being able to land a normal weight girl?

This guy is not fat be he's kind of dorky although he dresses well. He just has a choir boy innocent image about him.

I don't know, I just want to know what goes through somebodys head when they decide they want to marry an obese chick because
I would have to be single for a loooooooooooooooooong time before I start looking in that direction
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall.
As soon as he marries her then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart.
But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
She'll always give you peace of mind.

Don't let your friends say
You have no taste,
Go ahead and marry anyway,
Though her face is ugly,
Her eyes don't match,
Take it from me she's a better catch.

Say man.
Hey baby.
Saw your wife the other day.
Yeah?
Yeah, she's ugly.
Yeah, she's ugly but she sure can cook.
Yeah?. Okay.

--Jimmy Soul
 

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Your question answers itself--we do NOT want fat girls b/c they're, well, FAT......and we want thinner girls b/c they're NOT fat..:)
 

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I pretty much only go for chubby chicks, with big-arsed t1ts. Not messy fatasses, but there needs to be some meat. My best friend is a girl, and despite her being what would normally pass as hot, I have zero desire to hit it because she's thin. I dunno.

I hate it when girls get too skinny. Take Christina Ricci for example. I thought she was a 10 in Buffalo '66, but Vincent Gallo treated her like sh1t and made fun of her weight, and she started loosing it. Now look at her. Yuk! Thora Birch too. She was totally bangable in Ghost World, and now she looks like an alien.
 

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rrrrr said:
Marilyn Monroe trumps Kate Moss any day of the week. I like voluptuous women with big boobs and as long as she's not fat I'm fine. I don't care so much about the butt. However when there's a skinny girl who takes care of herself and is thin and shapely that's awesome too.

Amen!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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