Why do men in general have lower standards than women?

[El Payaso]

What the title says.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Most men are AFCs and will take whatever they can get. Scarcity mindset...

Women on the other hand have desperate AFCs fawning over their every move.

 

[Infern0]

Feminism and the breakdown of the family unit and traditional gender roles.

Women didn't used to be encouraged to be promiscuous sluts in fact they used to be institutionalized for such behaviour.

Used to be the guys who got chased, as a man you were to just look after your career and take care of yourself and you'd have a loyal wife who society encouraged to be devoted to you.

Then comes feminism "you go girl" slerp with whoever, reality show lifestyle etc.

Women are not biologically set up for multiple partners, men are, this is biology nothing sexist about it.

So women get more and more unstable and hormonal, single mothers become common. We have a generation of guys raised by selfish, emotionally messed up single mothers and feminists who raise their sons to be beta.

These betas go out into the dating world and will settle for lesser women just to get that female validation they were raised to be dependent on.

The women get pregnant then leave the beta and become single mums

And on and on it goes.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Why do men in general have lower standards than women?

It's biology. The woman is the one stuck with the kid. She's the one who has the most incentive to make sure the male has good genes.

 

[Serenity]

How does knowing this help you in any way? It's even a loaded question assuming men in fact do have lower standards than women. Even if most men do, how would knowing that help you?

Will you ever get enough validation for your bitter views? Will it help? The answer is no.

 

[dustmuffin]

I really don't care. I will fu ck most any woman as long as they are not a whale and they have good hygiene. In my younger days I passed on many women that might have been a lot of fun because their tits were to small or some other crap.

I regret this. I f uck them all now at least once. There are many women that might be a bit heavy that are animals in the sack. F uck them all....no regrets.....

 

[Infern0]

Why do men in general have lower standards than women?

It's biology. The woman is the one stuck with the kid. She's the one who has the most incentive to make sure the male has good genes.

Think there's more to it.

One of my mates looks like Chris Hemsworth out of Thor. Couldn't get much better genetics. However he was raised by feminist mum and gets passed over for "bad boys" who are genetically far inferior.

Imo it's social conditioning at play

 

[skinnyguy]

As long as men are controlled by their penises, they will continue to **** ugly h0es.

Every time you **** a fat girl, you are contributing to the entitlement she feels.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

It's biology. The woman is the one stuck with the kid. She's the one who has the most incentive to make sure the male has good genes.

if this is true women really suck at selecting mates with good genes then

 

[marmel75]

Lots of guys get laid rarely to never so when they get a chance they take it

 

[Bingo-Player]

im not sure they do to be honest , I certainty don't

men just have much stronger primal urges for sex than women do

for example I would consider fvcking an average chick if I needed some release , but wouldn't really want much more than that .....

women are the other way around

they will be picky over who the fvck whilst they are young , but as they get older and fed up of being screwed around by "bad boys" they will settle for someone who isn't really what they want

but better that than seen as being left on the shelf

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Why do men in general have lower standards than women?

It's biology. The woman is the one stuck with the kid. She's the one who has the most incentive to make sure the male has good genes.

This at a basic level. You produce sperm constantly, a woman has an ovule per month. That's a great disparity in the worth of semen and ovules.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

I really don't care. I will fu ck most any woman as long as they are not a whale and they have good hygiene. In my younger days I passed on many women that might have been a lot of fun because their tits were to small or some other crap.

I regret this. I f uck them all now at least once. There are many women that might be a bit heavy that are animals in the sack. F uck them all....no regrets.....

True enough. I passed on a lot of decent girls when I was younger, for trivial reasons. But even at 50, I can't bang a fatty, no matter how drunk I get or how much younger she is than I am. Chubby I can handle, obesity is kryptonite to my super-boner.

 

[dustmuffin]

True enough. I passed on a lot of decent girls when I was younger, for trivial reasons. But even at 50, I can't bang a fatty, no matter how drunk I get or how much younger she is than I am. Chubby I can handle, obesity is kryptonite to my super-boner.

I agree....I'm dating a chubby blond right now. Good sex....she likes anal and what ever I do to her. Obese girls no ty

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

What the title says.

As a gender we have low self-esteem because we are repeatedly told how lucky we are if we can get a woman... Ha!

 

[dude99]

What the title says.

Because women are hard wired too look for the best provider. They are programmedin their DNA to look for the man that will provide and support them and a family. They see the alpha male as the best hunter that can provide the best option for their future.

Men are hard wired to keep the species going which means have sex and spread their seaman across as many women as possible. This gives the illusion our standards are lower

 

[thatfeel]

Because women are hard wired too look for the best provider. They are programmedin their DNA to look for the man that will provide and support them and a family. They see the alpha male as the best hunter that can provide the best option for their future.

Men are hard wired to keep the species going which means have sex and spread their seaman across as many women as possible. This gives the illusion our standards are lower

Nailed it.

 

[The Duke]

Why do men have lower standards?

Because they don’t have the options women have. When you don’t have a bunch of choices, you tend to take what you can get. You are quicker to decide, and not as picky, hence your standards are lower. Plus lets not forget the desire to have sechs and the fact that men are highly visual.

Take a cute girl with a decent body on a dating site…..she has hundreds of choices at her disposal. As a result she gets very picky to the point it causes issues. She is inundated with prospects and often ill-equipped at making good decisions. . Women can’t even decide on where to go eat 99% of the time. Its about like going down the cereal aisle at the grocery store. A woman has a hard time analyzing, filtering, sorting, and categorizing the different options into manageable groups. She struggles to do so on a dating site where she can review men based on height, salary, looks, job, personality, etc. She gets caught up in all the details and many times accomplishes nothing or makes the wrong choice under pressure to decide.

I have a sister and female cousin that tell me all about their dating life. They are decent looking girls and have plenty of men after them. They both have made some horrible decisions on guys they selected. They both struggle to select the right guy and are clueless when doing so. They have no clue what qualities to look for. They don’t analyze their mates and study the game like we do on Sosuave

Women do the initial choosing when it comes to mate selection, but men get to decide on what type of relationship ensues. I think that’s a good thing. Because no man worth his salt is going to wife up a woman that only brings looks to the table. He might have lowered his standards to get with that hot girl initially, but he won’t marry her if he is smart. So his standards do come into play eventually.

Its all relative to the amount of options one has at that point in time. If men had higher initial standards, there would be no dating happening!

 

[guru1000]

High-value men have high standards. Men with fewer options have low standards.

ALL women when they approach the WALL begin to drop their standards and settle. If a man puts in the work while he is younger and becomes a high-value man, then the bar is set even higher as he matures.

 

[FinallyFree]

We fall head over heels in love with the women themselves while women just see us as a road to stuff they love (status/children/etc). Men are far more easy to reject/replace. Sad truth.