Quick situation. I've been dating this girl for a few months (non exclusive). Things are well, but I have a feeling that I cannot trust her, so I need to walk away from the situation. However, every time I try and walk away I run right back to her. I have tried a number of times by avoiding her calls, being cold, etc... Eventually I call back and it brings me back to her again, creating this vicious cycle. I don’t know what else to do to get her out of my life. Any thoughts?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why do I run back?
- Thread starter JD4334
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Other girls is the way forward.....
You cant just ignore a girl.....exp if she gives you sex without pursuing other "intrests".
You have to go sarging other girls.....Do it while your seeing her. Then. When you have a few dates set. Then ignore her..
Oneitis........Its like emotional cancer. Stay clear from it.
You cant just ignore a girl.....exp if she gives you sex without pursuing other "intrests".
You have to go sarging other girls.....Do it while your seeing her. Then. When you have a few dates set. Then ignore her..
Oneitis........Its like emotional cancer. Stay clear from it.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Like they said other chicks will help ya out.
INXS
Don Juan
Go meet other women..don't say you are going to do it..DO IT NOW. GO MEET SOME NOW!!!!JD4334 said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.