Quick situation. I've been dating this girl for a few months (non exclusive). Things are well, but I have a feeling that I cannot trust her, so I need to walk away from the situation. However, every time I try and walk away I run right back to her. I have tried a number of times by avoiding her calls, being cold, etc... Eventually I call back and it brings me back to her again, creating this vicious cycle. I don’t know what else to do to get her out of my life. Any thoughts?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why do I run back?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Other girls is the way forward.....
You cant just ignore a girl.....exp if she gives you sex without pursuing other "intrests".
You have to go sarging other girls.....Do it while your seeing her. Then. When you have a few dates set. Then ignore her..
Oneitis........Its like emotional cancer. Stay clear from it.
You cant just ignore a girl.....exp if she gives you sex without pursuing other "intrests".
You have to go sarging other girls.....Do it while your seeing her. Then. When you have a few dates set. Then ignore her..
Oneitis........Its like emotional cancer. Stay clear from it.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Like they said other chicks will help ya out.
INXS
Don Juan
Go meet other women..don't say you are going to do it..DO IT NOW. GO MEET SOME NOW!!!!JD4334 said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.