"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why do I only like girls who aren't interested in me?

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for example. there's this one HB 9 that's interested in me, but this HB 7.5 that doesn't seem to like me is the one I'm trying to get with.

This seems to happen a lot.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Want what you can't have mentality. People place more value on what they can't/don't have.
 
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No Leaf Clover said:
for example. there's this one HB 9 that's interested in me, but this HB 7.5 that doesn't seem to like me is the one I'm trying to get with.

This seems to happen a lot.
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Odd situation. Are you talking just for casual sex or relationships?

Maybe inside you feel intimidated by the 9 or feel she will end up cheating on you if you do get together.

Maybe you feel like more of a catch to the 7.5, like she should be grateful to be with you and you will have all the power whereas the 9 could easily replace you without care.

You need to elaborate more on why it is you like the unattainable girls. Is it all about looks? Do you go for the uninterested 9 and blow of the 7.5 who wants you?
 
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