"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do I only like girls who aren't interested in me?

No Leaf Clover

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for example. there's this one HB 9 that's interested in me, but this HB 7.5 that doesn't seem to like me is the one I'm trying to get with.

This seems to happen a lot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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[S]alvatore

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Want what you can't have mentality. People place more value on what they can't/don't have.
 

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No Leaf Clover said:
for example. there's this one HB 9 that's interested in me, but this HB 7.5 that doesn't seem to like me is the one I'm trying to get with.

This seems to happen a lot.
Odd situation. Are you talking just for casual sex or relationships?

Maybe inside you feel intimidated by the 9 or feel she will end up cheating on you if you do get together.

Maybe you feel like more of a catch to the 7.5, like she should be grateful to be with you and you will have all the power whereas the 9 could easily replace you without care.

You need to elaborate more on why it is you like the unattainable girls. Is it all about looks? Do you go for the uninterested 9 and blow of the 7.5 who wants you?
 
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