Why do I left my expectations become my disappointments?

[the_great_gaia]

When it comes to meeting women, when I take an interest in them, and they seem interested in me.. why do I set myself up and have expectations from them?

I keep it cool on the outside, but my mind becomes my worst enemy.

I expect them to call, I expect them to text back, I expect them to stay interested. Overtime, they don't. I can't even make it past two weeks with women no more.

I'm tired of one night stands. I'm tired of meeting party girls.

I know what I need to do. I have to make a change, because it's getting to a point where I can't stand myself much.

I hate always thinking too much. I keep telling myself what NOT to do, then I turn around and do it anyway..

Does anyone know what I can do or what I can read on here to help me get a different perspective about expectations and how to control myself?

 

[zorg198]

The things is , you put the girls first instead of you! just relax!! stop thinking what will happen. if a girl likes you she will make the effort to be with you. if she's not then probably she's not so much interested.

Joe.

 

[the_great_gaia]

thanks brother Joe.

 

[zorg198]

Any time