"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why do I left my expectations become my disappointments?

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the_great_gaia

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When it comes to meeting women, when I take an interest in them, and they seem interested in me.. why do I set myself up and have expectations from them?

I keep it cool on the outside, but my mind becomes my worst enemy.

I expect them to call, I expect them to text back, I expect them to stay interested. Overtime, they don't. I can't even make it past two weeks with women no more.

I'm tired of one night stands. I'm tired of meeting party girls.

I know what I need to do. I have to make a change, because it's getting to a point where I can't stand myself much.

I hate always thinking too much. I keep telling myself what NOT to do, then I turn around and do it anyway..

Does anyone know what I can do or what I can read on here to help me get a different perspective about expectations and how to control myself?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The things is , you put the girls first instead of you! just relax!! stop thinking what will happen. if a girl likes you she will make the effort to be with you. if she's not then probably she's not so much interested.

Joe.
 
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