Black Casanova
Don Juan
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gah. sorry, guys
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
why do I keep trying to reply to posts and making new topics??
- Thread starter Black Casanova
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Smooth as Anything
Master Don Juan
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This is unacceptable. I want him banned immediately. We will not fall victim to his trollish lies.
...just kidding bro.
...just kidding bro.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Because you may be too stupid to hit the right button. Try thinking very hard about which one you're about to hit, and then just don't hit a button at all. Instead, hit the little X in the upper right corner of your screen. Have a nice day.
Don Pablo
Senior Don Juan
If you want to add to the topic at hand, hit post reply. If you want to make a new topic, hit new thread. That's all I can say.
Evil-Rom
Master Don Juan
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The internet is SERIOUS BUSINESS.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.