Black Casanova
Don Juan
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gah. sorry, guys
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
why do I keep trying to reply to posts and making new topics??
- Thread starter Black Casanova
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Smooth as Anything
Master Don Juan
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This is unacceptable. I want him banned immediately. We will not fall victim to his trollish lies.
...just kidding bro.
...just kidding bro.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Because you may be too stupid to hit the right button. Try thinking very hard about which one you're about to hit, and then just don't hit a button at all. Instead, hit the little X in the upper right corner of your screen. Have a nice day.
Don Pablo
Senior Don Juan
If you want to add to the topic at hand, hit post reply. If you want to make a new topic, hit new thread. That's all I can say.
Evil-Rom
Master Don Juan
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The internet is SERIOUS BUSINESS.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.