Black Casanova
Don Juan
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gah. sorry, guys
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
why do I keep trying to reply to posts and making new topics??
- Thread starter Black Casanova
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Smooth as Anything
Master Don Juan
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This is unacceptable. I want him banned immediately. We will not fall victim to his trollish lies.
...just kidding bro.
...just kidding bro.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Because you may be too stupid to hit the right button. Try thinking very hard about which one you're about to hit, and then just don't hit a button at all. Instead, hit the little X in the upper right corner of your screen. Have a nice day.
Don Pablo
Senior Don Juan
If you want to add to the topic at hand, hit post reply. If you want to make a new topic, hit new thread. That's all I can say.
Evil-Rom
Master Don Juan
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The internet is SERIOUS BUSINESS.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.