Why do I have SO MANY female friends?

[nightcrawler]

I've always wanted to have friends (female ones in particular) and I can't make one to safe my life. The minute I start treating them like friends they ignore me completely and give me the cold shoulder

Maybe I look too threading...I can't even make male friends

 

[Mad Manic]

I've always wanted to have friends (female ones in particular) and I can't make one to safe my life. The minute I start treating them like friends they ignore me completely and give me the cold shoulder

Maybe I look too threading...I can't even make male friends

Yes same, I think I'm better at the sexual and dominant stuff than the 'making friends' stuff. Don't have the problem of being seen in the wrong light by a girl (or guy) but friendships are very important too. All the guys I know in relationships with fitties do it through a great social circle.

MM

 

[KontrollerX]

"Disagreed. Be an a$$hole about it unless they agree to sleep with you. Period. You dont need leeches in your life, there are too many women out there. You dont need women "friends" to be successful socially."

Disagreed about your disagreement lol.

Chicks will only get a rise out of knowing they got to you by you being an assh0le to them. It makes them feel validated and important. You don't want to give them that power or ego boost so if you must cut some chicks out of your life simply slipping away and going no contact is for the best.

My advice advocates he consider and find out if he can get anything from these women of value first such as social proof, invites to parties, setting him up with a hot friend of theirs or whatever and if they prove to be worthless to such an end as one of these or something else he might find of value then and only then should he cut the "leeches" out of his life.

See I agree with you that leeches are bad for your health and need to be cut off from your blood supply before they suck the very life out of you but until he makes the evaluation that they are leeches with nothing more to offer him than syphoning off good things from him while offering him absolutely nothing in return well I just have to say until that determination is made your advice is flawed.

For this reason and the reason I gave about not wanting to reward a girl's lack of interest towards you with an AFC emotional assh0le angry outburst.

Your point about not needing chicks or even these particular chicks to be successful is a valid one as there can be a lot of benefit to completely starting a new as a DJ and standing on your own but at the same time the alternative is equally valid ie don't cut off a good potential resource or resources until you have deemed they are not resources at all.

 

[Da Realist]

There's one thing I will never forget: women hate other women. You do something to make them think another woman is coming between you and the group, at least on will start having feelings for you because an outsider is around. Another thing for the future is to not carry around all of your ex-girlfriends/bad dates. If they introduce to to any other woman, its over because they'll say "how good of a friend" you are instead of how good of a man you are.

 

[DonGorgon]

he needs to be more unpredictable and maybe flirtatiosly vulgar too to get them thinking sexually about him...

 

[SharinganUser]

Wish I could help you out, but I have only one or two female friends. I can't stand talking about whatever women talk about. Only thing I can say is that you should stop chasing women, and start letting them chase you.

Ortiz said it best "Don't chase women. Become a champion and let women chase you."

 

[JackPrescott]

"Disagreed. Be an a$$hole about it unless they agree to sleep with you. Period. You dont need leeches in your life, there are too many women out there. You dont need women "friends" to be successful socially."

Disagreed about your disagreement lol.

Chicks will only get a rise out of knowing they got to you by you being an assh0le to them. It makes them feel validated and important. You don't want to give them that power or ego boost so if you must cut some chicks out of your life simply slipping away and going no contact is for the best.

My advice advocates he consider and find out if he can get anything from these women of value first such as social proof, invites to parties, setting him up with a hot friend of theirs or whatever and if they prove to be worthless to such an end as one of these or something else he might find of value then and only then should he cut the "leeches" out of his life.

See I agree with you that leeches are bad for your health and need to be cut off from your blood supply before they suck the very life out of you but until he makes the evaluation that they are leeches with nothing more to offer him than syphoning off good things from him while offering him absolutely nothing in return well I just have to say until that determination is made your advice is flawed.

For this reason and the reason I gave about not wanting to reward a girl's lack of interest towards you with an AFC emotional assh0le angry outburst.

Your point about not needing chicks or even these particular chicks to be successful is a valid one as there can be a lot of benefit to completely starting a new as a DJ and standing on your own but at the same time the alternative is equally valid ie don't cut off a good potential resource or resources until you have deemed they are not resources at all.

Disagreed about your disagreement of my disagreement. If they arent putting out, he needs them to vacate his life. The ONLY way I can see him holding on to a phone number is IF they have hott friends they want to set his ass up with. Other than that, attractive women who dont want to fu*ck are about as useful as a large pile of fresh dog$hit in 108 degree weather.

 

[SharinganUser]

Disagreed about your disagreement of my disagreement. If they arent putting out, he needs them to vacate his life. The ONLY way I can see him holding on to a phone number is IF they have hott friends they want to set his ass up with. Other than that, attractive women who dont want to fu*ck are about as useful as a large pile of fresh dog$hit in 108 degree weather.

I have to disagree about your disagreement of his disagreement of his disagreement of your disagreement. If she isn't gonna hook me up, or hook up with me, then she better be a super chill chick. Other than that, women are troublesome.