"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why Do I Get Disgusted Once A Female Shows REAL Interest In Me?

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Bigtrucker2008

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Ok, so I have noticed a trend. Whenever I pull a female, and she starts to show REAL interest in me and calling me all the time, texting me for no reason, and complimenting me all the time, I become disgusted with them. They get on my nerves. And I mean, it could be one of the hottest chicks around. But once they get on that "I love you" type stuff, I get really tired of them and don't want them around me anymore.

Why is this???
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OneEyedJack

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You didn't specify a time-frame for this behaviour. If they start it too quickly then you could be turned off by their neediness.

If they start it after a reasonable amount of time say 3-4 months then a couple things might be happening.
1) Your feelings have not grown towards her, and hers have increased.
2) You might be acting like a boyfriend, but in your mind you are not, thereby causing her to think that you like her more than you do.

A Man can be a gentleman without acting like a boyfriend.

Give a little more information so the issue can be pinpointed.
 
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DonGorgon

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Bigtrucker2008 said:
Ok, so I have noticed a trend. Whenever I pull a female, and she starts to show REAL interest in me and calling me all the time, texting me for no reason, and complimenting me all the time, I become disgusted with them. They get on my nerves. And I mean, it could be one of the hottest chicks around. But once they get on that "I love you" type stuff, I get really tired of them and don't want them around me anymore.

Why is this???
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You are pulling women who you thing you should based on shallow superficial physical traits and not on real connections based on emotional interaction over time.

Slow down.. be more selective and spend time building something more than a F with a pretty face and body..
 
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Why did you pull them ?; as in what's the one thing that sealed the deal for you and made you wanna approach (or ****)

one more thing...if we say that this is disgusting, what would a chick do that you'd absoloutly love her for ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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