"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why Do I Get Disgusted Once A Female Shows REAL Interest In Me?

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Bigtrucker2008

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Ok, so I have noticed a trend. Whenever I pull a female, and she starts to show REAL interest in me and calling me all the time, texting me for no reason, and complimenting me all the time, I become disgusted with them. They get on my nerves. And I mean, it could be one of the hottest chicks around. But once they get on that "I love you" type stuff, I get really tired of them and don't want them around me anymore.

Why is this???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OneEyedJack

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You didn't specify a time-frame for this behaviour. If they start it too quickly then you could be turned off by their neediness.

If they start it after a reasonable amount of time say 3-4 months then a couple things might be happening.
1) Your feelings have not grown towards her, and hers have increased.
2) You might be acting like a boyfriend, but in your mind you are not, thereby causing her to think that you like her more than you do.

A Man can be a gentleman without acting like a boyfriend.

Give a little more information so the issue can be pinpointed.
 
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DonGorgon

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Bigtrucker2008 said:
Ok, so I have noticed a trend. Whenever I pull a female, and she starts to show REAL interest in me and calling me all the time, texting me for no reason, and complimenting me all the time, I become disgusted with them. They get on my nerves. And I mean, it could be one of the hottest chicks around. But once they get on that "I love you" type stuff, I get really tired of them and don't want them around me anymore.

Why is this???
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You are pulling women who you thing you should based on shallow superficial physical traits and not on real connections based on emotional interaction over time.

Slow down.. be more selective and spend time building something more than a F with a pretty face and body..
 
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Why did you pull them ?; as in what's the one thing that sealed the deal for you and made you wanna approach (or ****)

one more thing...if we say that this is disgusting, what would a chick do that you'd absoloutly love her for ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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