"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why do I feel empty despite doing so much?

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I am 25, and one year away from university graduation. And, as it stands, I was very introverted and geeky until last year, and since then I've decided to improve on all facets of my reality..

Ok, I will list things to do for next six month, guys tell me if this will get me the end result that I want..

*Join salsa, Swing, hip hop dance lessons

*Take full time university

*Join Swimming lessons

*Use Pick-up-artist or donjuan group to get insight into approaching strangers and making new deeper connections..

*Join power yoga, Badminton, gym..

*Take driving lessons to get license

*Use MSN, Facebook as a portals to keep in touch with everyone..

*Use laptop to spend more time in university..

*Use meetup.com to go on various events and meet new people..

*Join various University workshops to become more aware of future and present..

*join French conversation group.

*Use dating websites like plentyoffish.com

*Use matrimonial websites, like shaadi.com for marriages..

*Join Indian community group to help setup various events, and participate as well...

*visit and play games with cousins whenever possible..

Most of the things, have already started, while others will start next week, so guys is this worth it>?

what advice would you guys give, as I move ahead with my plans.

In all, the only thing that drives me is getting a date, despite doing so much over the last six months, I still feel empty, how do I tackle this limitation I've set in judging myself?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Having a driver's license will be a good start - and get a car. Mobility will open up your social circle. Have you ever had a "girl friend"?
 
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