"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why do I feel empty despite doing so much?

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I am 25, and one year away from university graduation. And, as it stands, I was very introverted and geeky until last year, and since then I've decided to improve on all facets of my reality..

Ok, I will list things to do for next six month, guys tell me if this will get me the end result that I want..

*Join salsa, Swing, hip hop dance lessons

*Take full time university

*Join Swimming lessons

*Use Pick-up-artist or donjuan group to get insight into approaching strangers and making new deeper connections..

*Join power yoga, Badminton, gym..

*Take driving lessons to get license

*Use MSN, Facebook as a portals to keep in touch with everyone..

*Use laptop to spend more time in university..

*Use meetup.com to go on various events and meet new people..

*Join various University workshops to become more aware of future and present..

*join French conversation group.

*Use dating websites like plentyoffish.com

*Use matrimonial websites, like shaadi.com for marriages..

*Join Indian community group to help setup various events, and participate as well...

*visit and play games with cousins whenever possible..

Most of the things, have already started, while others will start next week, so guys is this worth it>?

what advice would you guys give, as I move ahead with my plans.

In all, the only thing that drives me is getting a date, despite doing so much over the last six months, I still feel empty, how do I tackle this limitation I've set in judging myself?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Having a driver's license will be a good start - and get a car. Mobility will open up your social circle. Have you ever had a "girl friend"?
 
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