"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do I feel empty despite doing so much?

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Don Juan
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I am 25, and one year away from university graduation. And, as it stands, I was very introverted and geeky until last year, and since then I've decided to improve on all facets of my reality..

Ok, I will list things to do for next six month, guys tell me if this will get me the end result that I want..

*Join salsa, Swing, hip hop dance lessons

*Take full time university

*Join Swimming lessons

*Use Pick-up-artist or donjuan group to get insight into approaching strangers and making new deeper connections..

*Join power yoga, Badminton, gym..

*Take driving lessons to get license

*Use MSN, Facebook as a portals to keep in touch with everyone..

*Use laptop to spend more time in university..

*Use meetup.com to go on various events and meet new people..

*Join various University workshops to become more aware of future and present..

*join French conversation group.

*Use dating websites like plentyoffish.com

*Use matrimonial websites, like shaadi.com for marriages..

*Join Indian community group to help setup various events, and participate as well...

*visit and play games with cousins whenever possible..

Most of the things, have already started, while others will start next week, so guys is this worth it>?

what advice would you guys give, as I move ahead with my plans.

In all, the only thing that drives me is getting a date, despite doing so much over the last six months, I still feel empty, how do I tackle this limitation I've set in judging myself?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Having a driver's license will be a good start - and get a car. Mobility will open up your social circle. Have you ever had a "girl friend"?
 
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