Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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lili19771

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Why does it seem that every time I see a girl I think I'd bang, I always picture me having a relationship with her? Does this happen to anyone else? To describe it better it's kind of like I see a hot girl and I even if I don't approach her I always have thoughts of my future with her. Is this normal? It's mostly been happening a lot lately. What's wrong with me for having this happen?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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While it may not be "weird" to think that way, it's very counterproductive. By putting her in your mind as someone that means that much to you, before you even talk to her, you are putting so much unneeded pressure on yourself. I'm sure you can agree that you will have more pressure on yourself approaching your possible "future LTR" than "that cute girl I want to get to know".

Even if you do still work up the courage to approach her, the conversation probably won't feel as comfortable to her when your mindset is on her being your next relationship. Relax and have a more carefree approach with the mindset that it will be fun meeting someone new to see if you have a connection. That will rub off on her and give the exchange a better feel.
 
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