MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Dude... Most guys are sooo into attractive and lush women that they may not even get it up with a fat chick!!
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
why do guys think large girls are unattractive ?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
Ignoring them would be rude, I would say hi, then get the hell outta there without saying bye.
My opinion on fat chicks is simple. Beauty is a precious thing, the beauty of a woman is something that is precious and beautiful, it is like a gift. When a woman lets herself go to the point she becomes a fat disgusting pig, she is not only disrespecting herself and her body, she is disrespecting the whole female kind! they deserve no respect because they don't have respect for themselves!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Is that really what she looks like? I mean I heard the roumers but... Due props girrl.Originally posted by The Rake
You just described Wyldfire to a tee...
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
what I will say though is that we are confused with the term 'fat.' What is fat? if we are talking about 160-200+ pound women now that is FAT. If we are talking about women that have a little extra meat on the bones, women that have a small gut but don't have fat rolls, that is not fat.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
For the most part...but I wouldn't call my arse very round. I have curvy hips, so it's a little wide I think (but I can't really see it, lol). I definitely have big boobs, though...34DD. TOO big for my liking. That's why I need the curvy hips and wide butt...otherwise I'd tip over. It's all about balance.Originally posted by The Rake
You just described Wyldfire to a tee...
Kaine
Senior Don Juan
Does this really need a thread?
MacDiddy comment hits the subconscious button on this
Men don't choose to NOT be attracted to fat women
You don't choose to be aroused and get it up
"Attraction is NOT a choice"
It's mostly about our biology mixed with a hint of culture and experience
Kaine
Listen boy you been watching too much Oprah because the same kind of things I saw coming out of fat women when they complain about how its the "media" that decides what is beautiful.
Read the following two articles on the subject matter:
http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_100/102_relationship_expert.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/3682657.stm
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Wyldfire
For the most part...but I wouldn't call my arse very round. I have curvy hips, so it's a little wide I think (but I can't really see it, lol). I definitely have big boobs, though...34DD. TOO big for my liking. That's why I need the curvy hips and wide butt...otherwise I'd tip over. It's all about balance.
we're not worthy! we're not worthy!"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The way I see it if a woman has a medium/average frame then I give her 100 lbs for the first 5 feet of height and about 2-3 for each additional inch in height. so a girl that's 5'7 should weigh around 114-121lbs give or take. Also its about body fat percentage she should be between 18-22% body fat if she is toned. Just look in any playboy or penthouse and you see the girls with the hour glass figures, that's what I like.
Here ya go...Originally posted by PRMoon
http://www.villagephotos.com/pubbrowse.asp?folder_id=1250123
A 5 foot tall woman weighing only 100lbs is going to be so flat chested she looks like a 12 year old boy. I am 5 feet tall and I haven't seen 100lbs since I started to grow boobs.
And a 5'7" woman weighing only 121 lbs is going to look downright anorexic and sickly. Women that height wearing a size 6-7 is going to weigh around 150lbs.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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