MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Dude... Most guys are sooo into attractive and lush women that they may not even get it up with a fat chick!!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
why do guys think large girls are unattractive ?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
Ignoring them would be rude, I would say hi, then get the hell outta there without saying bye.
My opinion on fat chicks is simple. Beauty is a precious thing, the beauty of a woman is something that is precious and beautiful, it is like a gift. When a woman lets herself go to the point she becomes a fat disgusting pig, she is not only disrespecting herself and her body, she is disrespecting the whole female kind! they deserve no respect because they don't have respect for themselves!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Is that really what she looks like? I mean I heard the roumers but... Due props girrl.Originally posted by The Rake
You just described Wyldfire to a tee...
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
what I will say though is that we are confused with the term 'fat.' What is fat? if we are talking about 160-200+ pound women now that is FAT. If we are talking about women that have a little extra meat on the bones, women that have a small gut but don't have fat rolls, that is not fat.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
For the most part...but I wouldn't call my arse very round. I have curvy hips, so it's a little wide I think (but I can't really see it, lol). I definitely have big boobs, though...34DD. TOO big for my liking. That's why I need the curvy hips and wide butt...otherwise I'd tip over. It's all about balance.Originally posted by The Rake
You just described Wyldfire to a tee...
Kaine
Senior Don Juan
Does this really need a thread?
MacDiddy comment hits the subconscious button on this
Men don't choose to NOT be attracted to fat women
You don't choose to be aroused and get it up
"Attraction is NOT a choice"
It's mostly about our biology mixed with a hint of culture and experience
Kaine
Listen boy you been watching too much Oprah because the same kind of things I saw coming out of fat women when they complain about how its the "media" that decides what is beautiful.
Read the following two articles on the subject matter:
http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_100/102_relationship_expert.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/3682657.stm
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Wyldfire
For the most part...but I wouldn't call my arse very round. I have curvy hips, so it's a little wide I think (but I can't really see it, lol). I definitely have big boobs, though...34DD. TOO big for my liking. That's why I need the curvy hips and wide butt...otherwise I'd tip over. It's all about balance.
we're not worthy! we're not worthy!"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The way I see it if a woman has a medium/average frame then I give her 100 lbs for the first 5 feet of height and about 2-3 for each additional inch in height. so a girl that's 5'7 should weigh around 114-121lbs give or take. Also its about body fat percentage she should be between 18-22% body fat if she is toned. Just look in any playboy or penthouse and you see the girls with the hour glass figures, that's what I like.
Here ya go...Originally posted by PRMoon
http://www.villagephotos.com/pubbrowse.asp?folder_id=1250123
A 5 foot tall woman weighing only 100lbs is going to be so flat chested she looks like a 12 year old boy. I am 5 feet tall and I haven't seen 100lbs since I started to grow boobs.
And a 5'7" woman weighing only 121 lbs is going to look downright anorexic and sickly. Women that height wearing a size 6-7 is going to weigh around 150lbs.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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