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You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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Why do girls think this is sexy

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A guy that drives a manual transmission?

I've on numerous accounts have had girls say this to me when they get in my car and notice it's a stick shift.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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manual is harder which means you are more able to handle things than those who drive automatic cars.

just like mountain climbing is sexier than collecting things ;)
 

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are you serious?

I like the manual transmition because I have more control over the car and don't need to use the brakes all the time, but then again it should be about what you like more not what others think...
 

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Alvafe said:
are you serious?

I like the manual transmition because I have more control over the car and don't need to use the brakes all the time, but then again it should be about what you like more not what others think...
I'm not saying I purposely drive a manual transmission because girls find it sexy. I'm just curious why they do.
 

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Because the stick is phallic lol.

All joking aside, I agree that it is a man vs machine control thing.

Plus it's not an easy skill to learn from a girl's perspective.

Plus girls might think it's a sports car feature that means the car is fast lol.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tryst type said:
A guy that drives a manual transmission?

I've on numerous accounts have had girls say this to me when they get in my car and notice it's a stick shift.
When people "like" things, it's usually for subconscious reasons that can't be explained. Like the saying, "attraction isn't a choice," what we don't like and like isn't because we consciously decide to like or not like something.

I suspect girls "like" guys who drive a stick because that gives them the "feeling" that the guy "controls" things, instead of being controlled.

You might say that the car represents the basic mechanics of life, and the stick represents his hands on approach to making life do what he wants it to do.

Again, nobody is thinking this consciously, but that's kind of the metaphorical feeling or impression that it gives.
 

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Alvafe said:
are you serious?

I like the manual transmition because I have more control over the car and don't need to use the brakes all the time, but then again it should be about what you like more not what others think...
Mechanics always say that it's better to use the brakes than to use the transmission to slow down. A brake is made to wear, and is a lot cheaper to replace than a clutch.

BTW, I've driven about 200K miles with a stick.
 

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I dated a really hot dumb chick once. We went into my truck for the first time to go somewhere and she just couldn't wrap her head around the concept of shifting gears.

Her: Could you, like, not do that?
Me: What?
Her: Move that thing.
Me: You mean shift gears?
Her: Yeah
Me: (laughing)

She asked me questions like why other car owners don't need to shift gears and such. It was pretty entertaining!
 

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Desdinova said:
I dated a really hot dumb chick once. We went into my truck for the first time to go somewhere and she just couldn't wrap her head around the concept of shifting gears.

Her: Could you, like, not do that?
Me: What?
Her: Move that thing.
Me: You mean shift gears?
Her: Yeah
Me: (laughing)

She asked me questions like why other car owners don't need to shift gears and such. It was pretty entertaining!
:crackup:

This reminds me of a porn I watched in my teenage days.

Girl was at the rmv getting a road lesson. The instructor had her mimic shifting with her hands then he tells her to use her mouth which he then proceeds to take his "stick shift" out of his pants and has her practice on that.
 

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Desdinova said:
I dated a really hot dumb chick once. We went into my truck for the first time to go somewhere and she just couldn't wrap her head around the concept of shifting gears.

Her: Could you, like, not do that?
Me: What?
Her: Move that thing.
Me: You mean shift gears?
Her: Yeah
Me: (laughing)

She asked me questions like why other car owners don't need to shift gears and such. It was pretty entertaining!
:crackup:

This is just way over the top man.

Anyway, I taught myself how to drive stick, and also how to rebuild the manual transmission that came with the car I learnt on. Long story short, synchros are a much bigger PITA than your clutch will ever be, so I'd worry about that first. Same advice though. Downshifting to third is fine, but hard shifting into second regardless of what gear you're coming from is asking for trouble down the road.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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