Because they’re cowards and narcissistic.but the name of the post is titled ''why dont women break up with guys directly''
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Because they’re cowards and narcissistic.but the name of the post is titled ''why dont women break up with guys directly''
i would say feminine and passive , all the same.Because they’re cowards and narcissistic.
Women cannot afford to be honest, It’s in their best interest to keep things in a gray area with any man. If the man is unclear about her intentions, it makes him work harder and gives her a sense of power.They dont want to be blunt.
Hit the nail on the head here, I'm sure we all had moments in the relationship where she started acting "different" all of a sudden and it leaves you wondering what you did wrong.It normally is not that she feels bad for him. Typically she has already lined up the next guy, has been talking to him/seeing him and is now investing in him. She probably feels nothing at all.
Rather than deal with the confrontation, neediness, drama, rationalization and other nonsense that most men will display when they get dumped, it is much easier to just ghost them.
The best response to this behavior is always silence. Simply move on. Be thankful she showed you who she was and didnt waste any more of your time.
It also gives up strength and self respect.Hit the nail on the head here, I'm sure we all had moments in the relationship where she started acting "different" all of a sudden and it leaves you wondering what you did wrong.
Just like Glassguy said it's mostly because they have your replacement lined up and are ready to get rid of you.
A lot of guys try to save the relationship by pursuing harder, this just turns them off even more. Believe me I've been there.
Like many men. Why would otherwise men chase women?Women don't act with logic they act with emotion
Two types of menLike many men. Why would otherwise men chase women?
I think the bolded is a much larger reason than anything else offered on this thread. Just take a moment to think about how many men here on SS commit cringeworthy acts when they get dumped?It normally is not that she feels bad for him. Typically she has already lined up the next guy, has been talking to him/seeing him and is now investing in him. She probably feels nothing at all.
Rather than deal with the confrontation, neediness, drama, rationalization and other nonsense that most men will display when they get dumped, it is much easier to just ghost them.
The best response to this behavior is always silence. Simply move on. Be thankful she showed you who she was and didnt waste any more of your time.
all factsWhen a woman goes cold, there is no reeling her back in. She has already broken up with you in her heart. The only solution is the preemptive strike. Never be the dumpee.
That should not be confused with a woman who temporarily backs away a little. All women will do this from time to time. The way to handle this is to mirror her behavior and back away yourself. This will create tension in her and cause her to get all affectionate again.
I repeat that there is no fixing a woman who has gone cold. Women break up with a man months in advance of physically leaving. They mourn the loss of the relationship while still present with the man. That’s why they seem so icy cold when the physical breakup occurs. They have already left and mourned while still together with him.
The preemptive strike will save a man much heartache. A woman gone cold is a parasite that must be cut away ruthlessly.
This is sometimes true but sometimes not. At the end of the day it really comes down to your reaction. Most times the way you have been acting for months has been the cause of it...If you REALLY want the best chance to change things when she dumps you agree with her by saying something like "You know, you are right...I was thinking of the same thing for a while, I am glad you brought it up. Well, wish you all the best. Take care."When a woman goes cold, there is no reeling her back in. She has already broken up with you in her heart. The only solution is the preemptive strike. Never be the dumpee.
That should not be confused with a woman who temporarily backs away a little. All women will do this from time to time. The way to handle this is to mirror her behavior and back away yourself. This will create tension in her and cause her to get all affectionate again.
I repeat that there is no fixing a woman who has gone cold. Women break up with a man months in advance of physically leaving. They mourn the loss of the relationship while still present with the man. That’s why they seem so icy cold when the physical breakup occurs. They have already left and mourned while still together with him.
The preemptive strike will save a man much heartache. A woman gone cold is a parasite that must be cut away ruthlessly.
all facts, leave... because you don't wanna live a lie and be ready to move on , don't leave because you think it will attract her back that's the key point. because depending on how you been acting for how long you may never get another chance , and that's ok if you fall off the bike get back on with another chick, always work on yourself and get better and more healthier. and stay fitThis is sometimes true but sometimes not. At the end of the day it really comes down to your reaction. Most times the way you have been acting for months has been the cause of it...If you REALLY want the best chance to change things when she dumps you agree with her by saying something like "You know, you are right...I was thinking of the same thing for a while, I am glad you brought it up. Well, wish you all the best. Take care."
And then simply get up and leave with no emotion. This will literally be like dropping a nuclear bomb on her because it will shake her to her core and make her question EVERYTHING because you have reacted the exact opposite of how every other guy she has dumped acted and can even have her begging to take you back within a few days or a week.
But this also isn't an attempt to reel her back in. It's you agreeing with her and walking out of her life. Even if you are doing it as part of a strategy she doesn't know that. After this however you MUST maintain this less needy, more masculine behavior and not go back to your previous behavior because she wil be testing you hard to see if this is some act or if this is real.