I have trouble believing this. I think everyone may want attention to a certain extent, but males want it less. Women seem to need it to stay sane. A woman could never handle not being validated all the time like men are forced to because of current societal trends to favor the woman.comic_relief said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why Do Girls Love Attention?
- Thread starter spinaroonie
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Although I was mainly joking with my "They come that way from the factory" line, my subtle point was this. Thanks Kailex.Kailex said:
Why spend time, money and effort on things that 1) I can't change or 2) are not going to help me advance in life?
I'd rather be having fun with girls than trying [too hard] to understand them.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
The answer is that:
1) They are massively insecure and tend to fall apart emotionally if they don't get attention.
2) As I mentioned before, they have the mentality of children. There's no getting around it. They generally have to be treated like children.
1) They are massively insecure and tend to fall apart emotionally if they don't get attention.
2) As I mentioned before, they have the mentality of children. There's no getting around it. They generally have to be treated like children.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
