I have trouble believing this. I think everyone may want attention to a certain extent, but males want it less. Women seem to need it to stay sane. A woman could never handle not being validated all the time like men are forced to because of current societal trends to favor the woman.comic_relief said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why Do Girls Love Attention?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Although I was mainly joking with my "They come that way from the factory" line, my subtle point was this. Thanks Kailex.Kailex said:
Why spend time, money and effort on things that 1) I can't change or 2) are not going to help me advance in life?
I'd rather be having fun with girls than trying [too hard] to understand them.
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Master Don Juan
The answer is that:
1) They are massively insecure and tend to fall apart emotionally if they don't get attention.
2) As I mentioned before, they have the mentality of children. There's no getting around it. They generally have to be treated like children.
1) They are massively insecure and tend to fall apart emotionally if they don't get attention.
2) As I mentioned before, they have the mentality of children. There's no getting around it. They generally have to be treated like children.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
